Do you have any conservative voters you could ask IRL OP? If not, it might be good to expand your network to encompass them, as it would benefit all of us to broaden our exposure to other perspectives
I suspect for many of us, our party political allegiances are a product of our birth, background & upbringing, as well as our socio & geographical location. In some geographical areas, or in certain types of community - it is going to be quite a rare occurrence when you meet someone who votes Tory, or for others, someone who votes Labour.
The big cities tend towards Labour, as does the north of England, Wales and Scotland ( although now moving towards SNP). The South East ( apart from London) and the south more generally, as well as more rural constituencies tend to vote Tory, and some times Lib Dem.
I'll be spoiling my ballot this election; but by circumstances of birth; background; geographical location, and I guess by instinct, I'm a Labour voter.
To me Feminism has always equated with Humanism, of the strain that values human beings and has compassion for their sufferings as well as their possibilities. I've always perceived Conservatism as precisely that: the protection of tradition and the protection of established privilege and/or wealth.
When I was a lot younger I was heavily involved in radical politics. My first political act was to become a vegetarian, aged 16. From there I went on to help set up and live on 1980's Peace Camps; be part of the movement against Thatcherism; be involved in squatting communities in 1980's London...and so on.......
I became involved in psychotherapeutic method; counselling; earth centred feminism - a bit of a hippy, I suppose. Valuing the feminine; enjoying and celebrating my female body and sexuality.
I have to say in all of those years, I never once came across anyone in my circle who would have even considered voting Tory...so it does depend on the circles you move in.
I was born and brought up in Liverpool/the wirral; but have also lived in Buckinghamshire, London, Aberdeenshire and Gloucestershire - before returning to Liverpool 15 years ago. In that time I have since met a wide variety of people, and encountered different lifestyles and cultures - but do have to say that I still find it odd when a feminist says she votes Conservative. that's not necessarily a judgment, but an honest reflection. To me Tories always seek to protect existing privilege ( reduction of taxes on wealth etc) and also display a sort of moral superiority and judgment. The idea that personal wealth is always the result of hard work and is deserved; and that poverty is the result of fecklessness and lack of personal responsibility. I disagree. My father worked hard all of his life; and his ingenuity in terms of engineering made his company owners very wealthy, but he never was....in twenty years he had not one sick day from work - and then Thatcherite policies encouraged and enabled his company to move to Spain where they could employ people even more cheaply.
To me Feminism is radical politics, and conservatism is anything but that......I'm a radical...but now without a home....It's not that I think Labour is rotten, but that it has become beholden to a very vocal and intolerant crowd - with very foxed ideals and visions. Not everyone in the Labour movement is like this, though - but that is what is holding sway at present.