Allow me time to pick that apart and see what I think.
I do not agree with some of the treatment given to them in this conversations. What treatment? That we GC women refuse to call transwomen women? What specifically is the treatment you do not like?
I agree with you that humans can not change sex but Transwomen are not men, Ithen what are they? The only really sensible answer is that the are men with dismorphia who wish to be seen as women.
I believe that transactivism needs to change ... as I don’t think all of them are a good reference to the whole trans community something almost every GC woman here has posted over the years!
I think that transwomen should be differentiated for certain issues, but not all of them, many issues involve biological women as well as transwomen. I don't understand that. Transwomen should always be differentiated. They don't want to be seen/treated as men and they are not women. They are transwomen. Let's celebrate that fact. What issues that involve women also involve transwomen? Male violence? Take that to violent men.
The hurt you talk about, honestly, is not inflicted by transwomen but by men who use this label to take advantage of women. You transphobe you!
Have you not read and internally digested the official Stonewall definition of transwoman?
Don't go picking and choosing the good and bad trans... that there is such a divide, such a subset of men, is PRECISELY whey GC women want an open and honest debate in the first place! Don't hold it up as a beacon of honesty and truth now. Many women have had their livelihoods threatened for trying to have that conversation. It comes across as utterly disingenuus to post that here.
I don’t think real trans people are trying to re-write biological reality, again Stonewall would label you a transphobe for the the use of the word 'real' you are denyng someone's reality! And don't tell me I am wrong, many posters here have said similar things on all sorts of platforms and in real life and been demonised for it!
it’s more an issue of educating society on the real issue so that the nonsense that has been happening (from both sides of the argument, to be frank), goes away. What education is needed? Precisely what needs to be learned? If some of the nonsense you refer to is women's rights to be safe, to legally claim single sex provision for some services that WILL by their very nature exclude transwomen then we will remain at logger heads. If it includes teaching that sex can be a spectrum, that men can be women because of a feeling, we will remain at loggerheads.
To go back to your comment about transactivists doing harm, yes! There is a great slew of women here who, a year or more ago, would have marched shoulder to shoulder with transwomen to fight for equality of provision. Not for access to all women's facilities but for specific, targetted, much needed provision of all sorts of facilities and services for trans men and women across the UK.
But not today. Purely because of the violent acts and social media presence of trans activists. And I mean real physical acts of violence by real transwomen, even discounting those 'bad men pretending' you mentioned before.