Roses here's what I actually wrote: The boys who did that had the option, had they chosen to, to escalate to rape and put me at risk of pregnancy as I was post-menarche (just). No female-born person can ever escalate to rape
That's not minimising anyone's experience of sexual assault by a woman. It's stating a fact that said woman cannot commit rape. The thread context is risk to women. I am talking about the differing risks men and women pose to women.
it reads like there's a hell of a lot of minimising going on
There is, from you and other posters who are trying to claim that men are not the big threat to women that the stats show them to be. When you (plural) try to claim that women are as bad as men, or that the chance of a man raping us is tiny, you (plural) are minimising male violence and the effect that it has on women's lives.
When dealing with trans privilege activists, every accusation is an admission.