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Issues facing woman and girls worldwide

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 09:02

Thought it could be useful to raise awareness of issues facing woman and girls worldwide and discuss what we can do to help them.

Please do feel free to add to the list also as there will be loads that I’ve missed.

It made me very angry writing and researching this:

FGM - ‘the ritual cutting or removal of some or all of the external female genitalia. The practice is found in Africa, Asia and the Middle East, and within communities from countries in which FGM is common’

FGM is still practiced within the UK and is of course illegal here, we have only had one successful prosecution since it was made illegal and it was February this year - www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-england-47094707

Girls are encouraged to not tell anyone about it, awareness for the communities and those around them is the only way we can end FGM here. With wider efforts needed accords the globe.

Safe access to abortion - this is not just something that happens in third world countries, this is happening on our very doorstep in the UK! Northern Ireland has still not updated its abortion laws. Woman are being forced to continue pregnancies, even if they are raped, even if it was through incest and this needs to change.

Child brides - 140 million girls will become child brides between 2011 and 2020 . Girls who marry before age 18 are typically denied an education, at risk of complications related to premature childbearing, and more vulnerable to intimate partner violence.

Maternal health - The World Health Organization estimates that 800 women die every day from preventable, pregnancy related causes. That’s nearly 300,000 lives per year needlessly lost during what is fundamentally a life-creating event.

Sex based violence 1 in 3 woman Experience physical or sexual abuse in their lifetime. I’m not sure what more I can say on this than attitudes need to change.

Access to education A 2013 report by UNESCO found that 31 million girls of primary school age were not in school, and about one out of every four young women in developing countries had never completed their primary school education. That number represents a huge pool of untapped girl power: that same report suggests that educated women are more likely to get married later, survive childbirth, raise healthy kids, find work, and earn more money, among other positives.

Trafficking of woman and children This is the fastest growing crime in the world, it pulls in an estimated $99billion per year and there’s an estimated 25 million people trapped in forced labour, with an estimated 71% being woman and girls.

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NewName19 · 10/08/2019 14:07

What about period poverty? I know in the grand scheme of things it’s not as terrible as the things mentioned up thread but to be without these products when you are in need is horrendous and shouldn’t happen

Bespin · 10/08/2019 14:36

exellent list of recourse and links to importent issues.

dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 14:38

At first I thought the use of woman was a mistake, but Early, you use it consistently to refer to women when you understand the correct plural. For some reason you don't say man when you mean men.

woman’s rights is everyone’s issue to solve and a lot of the time, men’s causing.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 15:07

Seriously what is your point?

That because I’ve made the mistake of saying woman’s instead of women’s that I don’t care about them or what?

Please clarify what point you are trying to make?

Is ‘woman’ some huge insult I’m unaware of?

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Helmetbymidnight · 10/08/2019 15:11

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 15:13

Woman and women sound very similar when speaking and when typing.

I assure you there was no insult intended there.

If you have something to contribute, please do so, but the nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread.

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Helmetbymidnight · 10/08/2019 15:15

It really stood out for me, given the thread is about: Issues facing ...'women'

LangCleg · 10/08/2019 15:17

If you have something to contribute, please do so, but the nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread.

My advice would be not to filibuster your own thread by taking endless offence when people say things you don't like.

BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 10/08/2019 15:24

nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread

Shock

One to be stored away and quoted later

dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 15:27

Okay, I think it must be a cultural thing then, as woman (singular) and women (plural) sound very different to me, so it really jumps out.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 16:15

Incase it wasn’t clear that I’m not talking about one singular woman:

I am not talking about one single woman without access to abortion, but the 24 million women who have to have unsafe abortions each year.

I’m not talking about one single woman or girl that’s been a victim of FGM but the 200 million women and girls who are alive today that are victims and the more that will face it.

I’m not talking about one single girl who is forced into child marriage but the 15.5million each year.

Not talking about one single woman who Experianced sexual or physical abuse but 1 in 3 of all women, that’s over 1 billion women.

31million girls who don’t even finish primary school.

17.75 million women and girls that are victims of human trafficking.

800 women a day dying from preventable pregnancy related issues.

214 million women without access to contraception.

1 in 10 girls in Africa, missing school because of period poverty. In Kenya, 50% of girls do not have any access to any period products. In the uk, 10% of girls can’t afford sanitary products.

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TheInebriati · 10/08/2019 16:18

This isn't how I approach research into the threats women face, its a bit of a haphazard list.
I usually tackle them by type (eg VAWG, autonomy, healthcare, contraception) or by country.

For example currently in the US;
Children can be forced to marry their rapist, more than 200,000 children have been married over the last 15 years.
www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/200000-children-married-us-15-years-child-marriage-child-brides-new-jersey-chris-christie-a7830266.html

FGM is not illegal in some States;
www.equalitynow.org/us_laws_against_fgm_state_by_state

Trump is rolling back rights for victims of domestic violence, by removing coercive control as a crime.
resist.org/news/trump-administration-‘rolling-back-women’s-rights-50-years’-changing-definitions-domestic

Under so-called “nuisance” laws, women can lose their housing if they report domestic violence too often;
www.citylab.com/equity/2015/11/get-abused-call-911-get-evicted/402709/

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-day-slavery/201810/how-nuisance-laws-perpetuate-the-cycle-domestic-violence

Women can lose their housing or job if they take the pill;
www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/birth-control-in-the-trump-era

When women allege DV, they tend to lose custody;
www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/a-gendered-trap-when-mothers-allege-child-abuse-by-fathers-the-mothers-often-lose-custody-study-shows/2019/07/28/8f811220-af1d-11e9-bc5c-e73b603e7f38_story.html

What can we do about it? We can't do anything if we can't name the problem, or are banned from using accurate language.

Grass roots activism is the first and best antidote. It makes women feel less alone and helpless. It banishes Sleeping Beauty syndrome and learned helplessness. It provides a role model for women who are facing similar problems and gives hope to others.
When we are active, we work to create the society we want to live in.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 10/08/2019 16:23

An inspiring post TheInebriati .

Grass roots activism - women supporting and inspiring women.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 16:29

The coercive control one you raise is an issue very close to my heart. Awful that trump wants to decriminalise it. Although the UK’s now progressed in making it a crime, the conviction rates are shocking.

You can have all the evidence you think is needed, testimonials etc and they will still likely drop the case because they don’t think there’s enough. Because someone can destroy you and your life for years but there’s no bruises right?

More awareness for coercive control and
Better training for police is a cause worth fighting for closer to home!

(All of your points were, just putting my 2pence in on that.)

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NeurotrashWarrior · 10/08/2019 16:36

Grass roots activism is the first and best antidote. It makes women feel less alone and helpless. It banishes Sleeping Beauty syndrome and learned helplessness. It provides a role model for women who are facing similar problems and gives hope to others.
When we are active, we work to create the society we want to live in.

Yes!

dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 16:53

I know it doesn't fall into activism politically but the support women get on mumsnet is amazing.

Having loads of women pointing out when relationships are damaging to women is incredibly useful.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 17:03

I so agree dancing! The amazing ladies on the relationship board made me see the light many years ago and I’m still so greatful for it.

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barelove · 10/08/2019 17:15

This is a good thread with some useful and informative posts and I'll be following up at least one of those links with some action. I'm fortunate not to have faced any of the issues raised and am deeply depressed by seeing so many of the horrendous things that women have to deal with.

In the light of all the above, it seems particularly sad that we are criticising each other over our bloody spelling here. Life's hard enough.

minou123 · 10/08/2019 17:47

Thank you for posting the list Early.

Just wanted to add another issue facing women and children worldwide and that is civil war, war, conflicts and as a consequence women refugees.
It seems to me, just purely from experience and listening to women, that it's always the women who suffer the most during conflicts. It's the women who are expected:
• to suffer, in silence, the atrocities of war,
• keep thier family safe, but recieve criticism of how they do this
• then return home and rebuild the country after the conflict.

There are many issues women refugee face, a lot already on your list, but one of the ones is the feeling of isolation and anxiety while living in the UK. There is a real fear of being mocked, scorned, and attacked if they leave the house.

I know I dont do enough, but for my part, I volunteer at a refugee centre.

barelove · 10/08/2019 18:41

Bristol hospitality network is a good organisation working with asylum seekers. Well worth supporting if you're in the south west (and of course anywhere if you just want to donate cash Smile)

www.bhn.org.uk

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 19:06

Very good point about the isolation and anxiety faced by refugees in the UK minou it must be so difficult for them.

Giving time is invaluable. Another organisation helping refugees within the UK is Bloody Good Period who provide sanitary wear to refugees (as well as food banks and more in emergencies) the figures on their website of how much refugees have to live on each week is shocking!

www.bloodygoodperiod.com/

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Helmetbymidnight · 10/08/2019 19:20

huh? why was my msg deleted?

thats weird.

minou123 · 10/08/2019 19:26

Sorry, was trying not to ramble or go on too much.
It's something I'm quite passionate about, even if I may not know everything.

Barelove and Early - those are great charities to give to. You have reminded me Early that there are food banks for refugee centres, which also accept household items as well. One of things I do is set up emergency housing. So I go in and clean the house, make beds, fill the fridge etc. Every donation is worth more than gold, in my eyes.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 21:46

That’s good to know regarding the food banks, I’m sure the time you give means a lot.

I can’t imagine the trauma of going through all they have.

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littlbrowndog · 10/08/2019 22:25

Iranian women's rights defender, Yasaman Aryani has been sentenced to 16 years in prison, because of her peaceful campaigning against discriminatory forced veiling laws. Be her voice today.

We remember you, Yasaman.