Toilets

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I had my first experience of a man in female toilets tonight (was dressed as a female) and im ashamed to say i was terrified. I had my 9 year old dd with me when he walks in. Laughing how he was desperate for loo and its only a bit of brown titty and dicky.
I didnt even let dd wash her hands just grabbed her and ran out. On holiday in florida so dont know if its allowed here but dreading this being norm at home
Sorry if not making sense its 1 am here and im beyond tired. Just had to get it out.

Please don't be ashamed. You did what you needed to do in that moment. You showed your daughter that this isn't normal.

Its awful you were put in that position of feeling uncomfortable.

OP, I think I would have done the same as a natural reaction to a man being in my space when he's not expected (especially with a child).

I don't know how I will react when it happens - I think I'll just walk out.

I’m so sorry this happened. I hope you’re okay. Is this kind of thing what we all have to look forwards to?

What does brown titty and dicky mean? Do Americans say titty?

A TW telling you they are desperate for a loo is a strong indication of AGP or a fetish. It would never occur to me in a million years to say that to a perfect stranger. These are the people our mothers warned us about when we were little. And I should now celebrate how stunning and brave they are? FTS.

”its only a bit of brown titty and dicky.”

Did he say this to you? Fucking pervert! No wonder you ran. And like you, I hope it never gets normalised where I live. This is what it opens women up to.

I hate all the women fawning over these men saying "come on in, I don't mind"

its only a bit of brown titty and dicky.”

What kind of sicko says that to/in front of a child. Fucking pervert.

I would have run too. I do not want these males with fetishes
near me or my children

Quite frankly l'd feel safer in with the normal men than with these fetish perverts. Do you think if we use the mens loos when we encounter males in ours and explain to any men we encounter why, more might support stopping this madness.

its only a bit of brown titty and dicky.

Eh? What does this mean? In what context was it said - did they just wander in saying this or was it in response to something you said?

Quite frankly l'd feel safer in with the normal men than with these fetish perverts

God yes. I am seriously considering just plain using the gents if this nonsense comes to pass. All the creeps and weirdos will be in the ladies.

I have never heard hat expression before either.

OP - could you tell us what (you think) it means?

I don’t know what he was saying either? So much for ‘just want to use the loo like any other gal’. Wants an audience and to ‘shock’.

God yes. I am seriously considering just plain using the gents if this nonsense comes to pass. All the creeps and weirdos will be in the ladies.

I've been saying this for a while now. Risk assessment indicates the men's will soon be the best option.

‘Oi lads - just my huge old lady arse and - spoiler alert - I’m having my period so it’s going to get naaaasy from Vag and arse!’

Quite frankly l'd feel safer in with the normal men than with these fetish perverts
Yes, it really has come to this.
Budge up men.

Normal men

Im on orlando not disney tho was in bus station toilets (in hindsight prob not my brigjtest idea but dd needed to go) I dont know what he ment when he said that he was in the cubicle just saying random stuff. My sis in law said he made a big show when entering station - wanted pwople to notice him.

Oh and to give him.the benefit of doubt dd was in cubicle so didnt know she was there.

I’m so sick of the transphobia here. You’re a hateful bunch of bigots and should be ashamed of yourselves.

The issue here is that no man should ever be in any woman's communal public toilet space or any other sex segregated space or service, no matter how he chooses to present himself.

How are we women ever supposed to know who the "odd" people are until it is too late?

To even suggest that women looking out for the safety of themselves and children is "transphobic" is utterly bizarre!

You’re a hateful bunch of bigots and should be ashamed of yourselves.

What everyone on FWR?

Does that not include you?

Or do you mean just people who have said something you dont agree with?

Perhaps Waffles needs to be reminded of the definition of "bigot"?

[Hint: it works both ways!]