Banned from women-only FB group

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A trans woman edited by MNHQ because OP is using second language posted in a women's only FB group wanting free emotional labour and "validation" from untrained women to help them with getting over their abusive ex boyfriend.

I stated it wasn't appropriate to ask untrained women to take on their emotional labour, especially considering what had happened to them was so traumatic (according to them they ended up in hospital), and especially not for free and suggested they seek professional help instead.

Cue trans woman and women stating I was being transphobic, and "wouldn't understand the fear a marginalised group would go through."

I was told I hadn't been through a traumatic experience before so couldn't possibly understand what the OP was going through.

I've been banned from a group specifically designed for women. Nowhere in the post did I mention anything about the OP being trans.

I am so sick of this shit. The world has gone mad.

Hey jess

Oi oi Dog.

Totally bonkers here

Totally agree there! Oh and hey to you too

The weekends are crazy. I forgot I hadn’t really been coming on w/e’s and now I remember why!

Oi oi Lang 😉

Yeah Jess just chill

See the cricket Jess. All the men on my game are like wow.

Not too bad thanks littl

Had a very lazy day watching dh do a load of diy

How about you?

Anyone who says die in a fire is absolutely DISGUSTING and I'm pretty sure no-one on here would think that's OK (I bloody well hope not anyway!)

Great stuff. I bloody hope not too

I did I did... glad NZ lost

I wasn’t I watched the tennis for 6 hours. Omg. The fed lost

Yeah all the guys were like 💪💪💪

I heard it was on boundaries

Have you called the police, you stopped just short of telling us women to DIAF there

What a really nasty , twisted thing to say. No one has come anything close to saying that.

Yeah i had to sit through a bit of the cricket

Good that england won though...about bloody time!!!

Good rufus. Watched the tennis for like 1/2 a day.

And yeah...boundaries

I watched 2 minutes of cricket and an hour of gardening videos before I went and did the things in the garden I was learning about... I can’t get into tennis.

Have to say. I made a mistake in my name it was meant to be little. Ffs
All the ll which look like iiii

Have you called the police, you stopped just short of telling us women to DIAF there

What a petty little attempt at gaslighting.

No Jess cmon just try tennis is awesome

My garden like gone bonkers with all this rain and heat

The weekends are crazy. I forgot I hadn’t really been coming on w/e’s and now I remember why!

Yes. Let's blame the weekend. THAT'S why this thread is like it is. It's 'cos weekends be crazy.

Hey early. How’s things ?

What’s new with you rose. What you been up to this weekend ?

I've always been rubbish at gaslighting. Perhaps I'm just not into it, y'know.

But I am better at seeing red flags, especially around boundaries.

Yeah I got a bit of issues with the funny weather, more growth now though at least. I’ll be harvesting a lot of cucamelons, they’ve gone mental.

No, I’ve really tried with tennis since I moved here. Just can’t get into it