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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

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Why can’t transgender lesbians just date each other?

529 replies

Hithere12 · 17/06/2019 01:41

I keep seeing online transgender women so angry a female lesbian doesn’t want to date someone trans, but it begs the question why can’t they just date each other?

If they genuinely believe a trans woman is without question a woman and they are attracted to women then surely this would solve all their problems in terms of finding a partner? They could just date each other? Unless they don’t want to date trans women because they don’t see trans women as real women? Hmm Confused

OP posts:
BernardBlacksMolluscs · 13/02/2023 08:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/02/2023 07:49

Ronnie, we don’t think you’re more interesting than us, and if that’s your takeaway from all this then your levels of comprehension are far too low for you to be a robot.

Perhaps a robot hoover? They're not great intellectuals.

🤣

pattihews · 13/02/2023 08:15

I’m as fascinated by you as you are by me, guaranteed.

I'm not fascinated by you at all, Vera. You are a very dull poster.

You offered upthread to go away if we wished. Well, I would like you to go away and leave us alone.

Helleofabore · 13/02/2023 08:16

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Blimey. Veronica you don’t half keep putting yourself down, luv.

I recommend you stop talking about yourself in such a way. Never use that perjorative ‘tr*y’ in life and on MN (it will get deleted here thankfully). And go get some mental health support.

I do think ‘swinging wildly’ is right. Because posts have pendulumed from insanely vain and prideful to insanely low self esteem and like the writer spends their life in servitude to support others.

I would suggest if this was a real person that they would be under some mental health care plan. As it is, the manipulative nature of the posts are leading to the inevitable and predicted terminal point.

Women are tired of the fakery that is being shoehorned into our lives.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 08:46

veronica we have a british phrase

its called ‘over egging the pudding’

the more you post the more this is happening 😀

graduated with top honours, women think im a sexual threat (this one might be true depending on which way you think about it 🤔) 80% of men fancy me etc…

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 08:47

Intelligent as a computer

hahahahahahahaaaaa

missed that one

ElliF · 13/02/2023 08:48

Veronicawiththefacts · 13/02/2023 03:10

if you define yourselves as feminists who reject transexuals, well here you go: You have your chance to be just that. you happened to have one land here who would just love to just support you and have a conversation. Either way, I respect you all and I support you.

You fucked up drawing attention to yourself with your type there.... land?
You just misgendered yourself, or we’re you being honest with us?

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 08:48

ClearMoth · 12/02/2023 23:57

Life? Don't talk to me about life.

Love it

(you can tell ive only just woken up can’t you)

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 08:51

Perhaps a robot hoover? They're not great intellectuals

my friends robot hoover went through dog poo and spread it all over the downstairs of the house…

Baldieheid · 13/02/2023 08:56

You know, that's exactly why I'd never consider a robot hoover. Well, that and living in an old house with teeny steps between rooms and hallways. It would get stuck in one room and wear away the shreds of carpet the cats have left us.

Now why don't the tech heads design something useful that can get itself up and down 5cm steps, instead of plumbing their perversions into a PC whilst the jerk off?

knittingaddict · 13/02/2023 08:57

Cruelstepmother · 17/06/2019 03:04

Why the hell should they date someone if they don't want to? Your attitude sounds like you think all those LGBT weirdos should stick together - that's crap. We all have the right to choose our own sexual partners.

I think that's rather the point of the op.

knittingaddict · 13/02/2023 08:58

Sorry, didn't see how old the original thread was.

Iluvfriends · 13/02/2023 09:00

Lesbians with a penis......no such thing, I wish people would stop writing such nonsense.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 09:00

Well, that and living in an old house with teeny steps between rooms and hallways

thats why we haven’t bothered…dh would quite like one as a very stupid ‘pet’ though

knittingaddict · 13/02/2023 09:05

Veronicawiththefacts · 11/02/2023 19:46

It actually happened this week, so it was fresh in my mind. But yes, men try and help me hold doors, help with groceries, pick up things I drop. It’s extremely common.

I would do the same for a woman or man and I'm a woman. It's common decency and good manners. It means nothing apart from that.

RedToothBrush · 13/02/2023 09:47

A man walks into a space where women have been talking about how males are unwanted. He plonks himself down on the sofa in a display of ownership of the space. Then he says he 'supporting' the women. As if they are incapable of supporting themselves. Because afterall they are just ordinary weak women. This is known as a show of power to asset his 'right' to be there and how the women are powerless to his presence. He says he's not here to educate us. No he's right. He's not.

I wouldn't be surprised if we are offered love instead. (Which given the title of the thread...) Or even told that prayers are being given for us, to atone for our sins. To demonstrate just how nice this power man is and how much he cares about us, despite our ungratefulness and hideous witchlike ways. Being caring, and showing kindness, is a feminine trait you see, and we are being shown how the man is better at it than the females.

Do I think he's a bot? Nope this just another man is getting his rocks off, just by being present in a place he is aware that he's not particularly wanted. Thats the trip. The power trip. Its always about power.

Its boring. We've seen it all before hundreds of time. It never changes.

Baldieheid · 13/02/2023 10:01

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 09:00

Well, that and living in an old house with teeny steps between rooms and hallways

thats why we haven’t bothered…dh would quite like one as a very stupid ‘pet’ though

It certainly wouldn't fight its siblings outside your bedroom door at an ungodly hour, then leave you with your heart pounding and adrenaline pumping whilst they sat quietly washing each other and looking innocent.

Fml

knittingaddict · 13/02/2023 10:09

Well that was great fun and cheered me up no end. Not you *Veronica" (I skipped over most of your verbiage. I meant other posters responses.

howmanybicycles · 13/02/2023 10:18

OhHolyJesus · 17/06/2019 17:20

Interesting

Our results indicated that 87.5% of the participants who were asked this very question only checked off the cisgender options and excluded transgender and non-binary individuals from their hypothetical dating pool.

www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/201906/why-are-so-few-people-willing-date-transgender-person

That's an unreflective article which assumes it's 'progress' when people include trans people in their dating pool. I would never date a trans person or a non-binary person. Not because of their body but because of their politics which I consider unreflective, old-fashioned and dangerous. Same reasoning I'd never date a fan of Nigel Farage. It would not matter how much their body was attractive to me. I don't like bigotry in any form and I consider supporters of trans ideology to be bigoted.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 13/02/2023 10:25

I had a Roomba. Loved it.

Called it ‘Morten’ after Harket, from A-Ha.

(at that time European repairs had to be sent to Norway)

We had several happy years together (with lots of Morten getting wedged under the wardrobe in the back bedroom).

Then I bought some dark green rugs that Morten couldn’t ‘see’ (the ledge sensors read the rug as a precipice).

I put a bit of gaffa tape over the ledge censors so Morten would go on the rugs.

Predictibly, Morten then fell down the stairs and smashed to itty bits.

Thought about sending Morten to Norway in a jiffybag but ended up taking the pieces to the tip where my daughters and I hummed ‘Taps’ as we scattered it’s bits in the ‘small electricals’ hopper.

I have a Shark now.

ElliF · 13/02/2023 10:30

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 08:51

Perhaps a robot hoover? They're not great intellectuals

my friends robot hoover went through dog poo and spread it all over the downstairs of the house…

@Veronicawiththefacts did the same thing. They came on here and spread shit all across the thread, and then said, in their own words...

Veronicawiththefacts · Today 03:10
if you define yourselves as feminists who reject transexuals, well here you go: You have your chance to be just that. you happened to have one lad here who would just love to just support you and have a conversation. Either way, I respect you all and I support you.

They acknowledge their own gender. Yes it’s a slip of the tongue, or maybe part of their confused state, but in their haste to troll us all they misgendered themselves and let the truth out.

Big Oopsie!

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 13/02/2023 10:41

Veronicawiththefacts did the same thing. They came on here and spread shit all across the thread

Oooo nicely put

IcakethereforeIam · 13/02/2023 11:10

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 13/02/2023 10:25

I had a Roomba. Loved it.

Called it ‘Morten’ after Harket, from A-Ha.

(at that time European repairs had to be sent to Norway)

We had several happy years together (with lots of Morten getting wedged under the wardrobe in the back bedroom).

Then I bought some dark green rugs that Morten couldn’t ‘see’ (the ledge sensors read the rug as a precipice).

I put a bit of gaffa tape over the ledge censors so Morten would go on the rugs.

Predictibly, Morten then fell down the stairs and smashed to itty bits.

Thought about sending Morten to Norway in a jiffybag but ended up taking the pieces to the tip where my daughters and I hummed ‘Taps’ as we scattered it’s bits in the ‘small electricals’ hopper.

I have a Shark now.

Grin

RIP Morten, he suckedFlowers.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 13/02/2023 11:12

😃

ApocalipstickNow · 13/02/2023 11:42

“I bring you love” CM Burns

Why can’t transgender lesbians just date each other?
Baldieheid · 13/02/2023 12:03

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 13/02/2023 10:25

I had a Roomba. Loved it.

Called it ‘Morten’ after Harket, from A-Ha.

(at that time European repairs had to be sent to Norway)

We had several happy years together (with lots of Morten getting wedged under the wardrobe in the back bedroom).

Then I bought some dark green rugs that Morten couldn’t ‘see’ (the ledge sensors read the rug as a precipice).

I put a bit of gaffa tape over the ledge censors so Morten would go on the rugs.

Predictibly, Morten then fell down the stairs and smashed to itty bits.

Thought about sending Morten to Norway in a jiffybag but ended up taking the pieces to the tip where my daughters and I hummed ‘Taps’ as we scattered it’s bits in the ‘small electricals’ hopper.

I have a Shark now.

RIP Morten.....ahhhh now he was a beeeyoootiful man. Actually still is. All 3 have aged rather nicely. I lusted after Mags for many a year. Mmmmmm mmmmmm.

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