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Why can’t transgender lesbians just date each other?

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Hithere12 · 17/06/2019 01:41

I keep seeing online transgender women so angry a female lesbian doesn’t want to date someone trans, but it begs the question why can’t they just date each other?

If they genuinely believe a trans woman is without question a woman and they are attracted to women then surely this would solve all their problems in terms of finding a partner? They could just date each other? Unless they don’t want to date trans women because they don’t see trans women as real women? Hmm Confused

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TheBiologyStupid · 12/02/2023 21:38

It’s not offensive to “make a blanket statement” that I don’t do dick / vagina (as applicable).

If someone defining their own sexuality offends you, it’s your problem not theirs. Some people are hetero / homosexual. Get over it.

Absolutely, 2BthatUnnoticed!

Truthlikeness · 12/02/2023 21:56

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/02/2023 19:33

when you imagine this coming from a computer program it takes on a different light doesn't it?

you can trust me, fellow humans

The calm, patronising tone is definitely reminiscent of dystopian sci-fi.

Helleofabore · 12/02/2023 22:03

I find the constant reminder of the time ‘invested’ here rather disconnected. We are not a group to be educated and to have a discrete time invested in our education.

The scenario is like there is a major disconnect.

Faffertea · 12/02/2023 22:09

You can’t even use lack of acknowledgment of the points made by other posters to say it’s a bot. That’s true of Marge PIE and many poppers too.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/02/2023 22:15

Helleofabore · 12/02/2023 22:03

I find the constant reminder of the time ‘invested’ here rather disconnected. We are not a group to be educated and to have a discrete time invested in our education.

The scenario is like there is a major disconnect.

I'm interested in what veronica's handlers expected to happen after they'd invested the requisite amount of time?

Happylittlechicken · 12/02/2023 22:15

ElliF · 12/02/2023 19:01

Stonewall. What is that? Is that a hate group?

Yes. Yes it is. A rather homophobic one at that.

Helleofabore · 12/02/2023 22:23

BernardBlacksMolluscs

I really don’t know if it was a thing of education or patronisation. But it is seriously bizarre to keep mentioning the time invested in posting what seems to be posts that are so focused on the personal experiences that really do replicate so many we have read before.

I am sure I have read similar posts that also keep self confessing how patient, and understanding yet completely vain and self absorbed the poster is.

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 22:53

If you think I’m as an intelligent as a computer program and because of my calm demeanor and kindness to you, perhaps that explains some of my conceitedness, and I also feel sorry for the types of humans you’ve been interacting with. :-)

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 22:58

Again, I’m not here to educate you. I’m just here supporting

Happylittlechicken · 12/02/2023 23:02

Supporting whom @Veronicawiththefacts ? Who exactly are you supporting and what are you hoping to help them achieve?

RedToothBrush · 12/02/2023 23:21

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 22:58

Again, I’m not here to educate you. I’m just here supporting

Supporting the bepenised lesbians and the dick loving lesbians?

Cos it's not lesbians. Which this thread is about. Lesbians who feel harassed by males.

ElliF · 12/02/2023 23:23

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 22:58

Again, I’m not here to educate you. I’m just here supporting

It’s funny watching everyone responding to this troll.
People are so easily riled up by them.

Happylittlechicken · 12/02/2023 23:27

You’ve got a low bar on riled up @ElliF

ElliF · 12/02/2023 23:36

Out of curiosity, who aren’t trans-men harassing people in society? Why aren’t trans-men demanding access to male sports? Why are trans-men not demanding the access to men’s prisons? Why are trans-men not standing in the male changing rooms at swimming pools or public bathrooms? Why aren’t trans-men putting on performances in front of children? Where are all the trans-men? Where are the trans-men demanding accommodation of them the men around them? Are they just going about their lives, fitting into society, being nice pleasant people, and not trying to force themselves down men’s throats?

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:48

Thank you for asking!! @Happylittlechicken

you, and every other person here. I don’t want to be the center of this conversation. I’m getting a big head and that’s not my goal. I only wished to share my own experiences, and then take a more supportive role. I don’t care what you believe. To me that’s your right!! People should be free to love who they love and be who they are. You’re people who deserve my respect and support in my opinion and have been through traumas that I can relate to. Why I wouldn’t I be on your team?

ClearMoth · 12/02/2023 23:51

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:48

Thank you for asking!! @Happylittlechicken

you, and every other person here. I don’t want to be the center of this conversation. I’m getting a big head and that’s not my goal. I only wished to share my own experiences, and then take a more supportive role. I don’t care what you believe. To me that’s your right!! People should be free to love who they love and be who they are. You’re people who deserve my respect and support in my opinion and have been through traumas that I can relate to. Why I wouldn’t I be on your team?

I'm afraid I can't do that, Dave.

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:54

Lol. So now you’re the robot? The fact is, I support everyone. That’s just my character. I don’t have any agenda in this situation except to support you.

ClearMoth · 12/02/2023 23:57

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:54

Lol. So now you’re the robot? The fact is, I support everyone. That’s just my character. I don’t have any agenda in this situation except to support you.

Life? Don't talk to me about life.

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:59

you know what? I don’t actually have a great answer for what’s going on with transexual men at this time. I can’t really speak on their behalf. I can only speak for myself. However, I would love to inform myself more on this issue and get back to you about what I learn :-)

TheBiologyStupid · 12/02/2023 23:59

ClearMoth · 12/02/2023 23:57

Life? Don't talk to me about life.

😂

RedToothBrush · 12/02/2023 23:59

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:54

Lol. So now you’re the robot? The fact is, I support everyone. That’s just my character. I don’t have any agenda in this situation except to support you.

Crutches
Pillars
Scaffolding

ClearMoth · 13/02/2023 00:01

Veronicawiththefacts · 12/02/2023 23:59

you know what? I don’t actually have a great answer for what’s going on with transexual men at this time. I can’t really speak on their behalf. I can only speak for myself. However, I would love to inform myself more on this issue and get back to you about what I learn :-)

I don't think the robots are taking over. I think the men who play with toys have taken over. And if we don't take the toys out of their hands, we're fools.

Veronicawiththefacts · 13/02/2023 00:05

I admire your political drive to enact change and poetic diction :-) thanks for your comment

Veronicawiththefacts · 13/02/2023 00:06

@ClearMoth its clear you have a talent for language. Are you pursuing that?

ElliF · 13/02/2023 00:21

It appears as though @Veronicawiththefacts doesn’t understand English grammar or syntax.