Oh FFS kink shaming. Kink shaming?!
I fucking love a blowie and dressing up and role play with my OH.
Would I make this public information and pretend it wouldn't damage perception of me as a professional?
Of COURSE I fucking wouldn't.
It's inappropriate and unnecessary to share details of sexual kinks on an entirely unrelated public platform.
FOR FUCKS SAKE YOU COULD NOT WRITE THIS SHIT.
I would be at best chastised and at worst fired for the same behaviour. I'm a bisexual woman and would not shout homophobia at either of these reactions - I would accept I had behaved inappropriate and unprofessionally.
"Because transphobia" is not an adequate defence of bullying, inappropriate and unprofessional behaviour. Allowing special treatment and limited consequences for trans people who act inappropriately in the workplace, we fetishise and "other" them, saying it's ok for their preference of sexual acts to be in an open and inappropriate forum because they're trans. It undermines the entire argument that the aim should be EQUALITY. That works both ways.
If equality is to be equal consequences should be equal too. Otherwise the entire concept of equality is undermined.