Let's address the elephant in the room shall we? It's been quite an interesting week..
First up is "Dr Pizza" the blue tick IT writer caught in an FBI sting wanting to meet up for sex with a 7 and 9 year old. Let me repeat that, a 7 and 9 year old. Of course he's peers responding "I'm shocked". Really? Fucking really? That guys twitter feed was filled with comments like "checking out the jailbait" that's one of the milder ones. He was also a huge advocate for the lowering of the age of consent. Hmm, why would that be? The transcript of his discussion with the undercover agent is nothing less than nauseating.
Then of course the NSPCC hires Munroe, without seeming to perform their due diligence. Even to give them the benefit of the doubt that they were unaware of the tweets encouraging children to dm Munroe, surely the well publicised drama with both L'Oréal and Labor would give them reason to do even the minimum of research surely?
So now onto "Rubberman". I have so much to say about this... but first please bear with me, I will give a little of my, somewhat limited, background experience.
During my late teens to early 20's I worked at a community centre in an area that would be described in the UK as a council estate. Initially I began as a volunteer to keep me occupied during a period of unemployment. The centre was offered funding for administrative staff and they offered the position to me. One of my responsibilities was to attend weekly staff meetings and take minutes, or in the event that someone couldn't attend give their report in their absence. Now one of the staff was CSA Counsellor. Her weekly reports were heartbreaking to hear. I would of course be professional during the meetings of course, only to go home and scream and sob into my pillow for those poor, poor children. Their stories haunted me. I was in a committed relationship at the time and apologies if I'm over sharing here, but sometimes the thought of sexual intimacy repulsed me, not always but sometimes just an act or a movement.
So in sharing that I have to ask - Surely such a large organisation has meetings? Surely as someone responsible for the celebrities and PR side "Rubberman would be required to attend at least some of those meetings? Even when not in direct contact with the children how can the stories not horrify? How can anyone remotely think wanking in the workplace is acceptable? How can people defend this?
I think we know the answers. It's in plain sight. Mothers know. Women know. These people have been trying for decades and they will continue to. They are in our governments, our churches, our schools. Stop turning a blind eye. Ask yourself do you want the uncomfortable truth or the comforting lie?
At this stage, imho, people defending this fall into two categories:
- Wilfully ignorant
- Complicit
That may offend some, but guess what, #sorrynotsorry, I'm putting the kids first.