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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Can we start an anti "nail" campaign?

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2rebecca · 01/06/2019 21:03

As a GP who frequently washes her hands, allotment owner and instrument player I really hate the trend for women to have immaculate nails that cost a fortune, scratch people and mean women can't do anything useful. Where t f did this horrible trend come from and how do we give women back the use of their wonderful hands?

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LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 22:31

Where was the ban mentioned
What the heck's an anti nail campaign if not saying women shouldn't be allowed to have them Confused
It's all but in another word. Ban, anti nail, this thread shows people gonna judge/want rid regardless of the way you say it.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:34

"I never said though and my answer was from my point of view."

I was joking. It was just refreshing to see someone to state what was actually going on.

Yeah, Lass a ban and something being socially unacceptable are actually two different things. So no there's nothing about a ban here. That's misleading.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:37

"What the heck's an anti nail campaign if not saying women shouldn't be allowed to have them"

How about persuading women and girls that they don't need them, the same way the cosmetics industry spends large amounts of money persuading them that they do? Persuasion or discussion isn't a ban. Nobody is not allowing anything.

minou123 · 02/06/2019 22:37

Erythronium

I really can't follow your logic. You say you want to destroy the beauty industry, but then tell me "you can do what you like". How does that work? If you destroy the beauty industry, how can I do what I like, if what I like is to wear nail varnish?

Destroying the beauty industry removes the choice for women (and men) to do what they like. I mean, what you describing is kind of like totalitarianism.

Holdthedamndoor · 02/06/2019 22:37

Yeah, Lass a ban and something being socially unacceptable are actually two different things. So no there's nothing about a ban here. That's misleading.

It's not misleading the OP believes a woman with her nails done doesnt have use of her hand and wants to 'give women their hands back'.

How do you achieve that without banning them?

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:37

Personally I wouldn't have worded it like that. Pro-natural nails would be much better.

Holdthedamndoor · 02/06/2019 22:39

You want to destroy the beauty industry.

Then claim nobody is not allowing anything.

You would like to not allow women to have any cosmetic products at all? Surely?

LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 22:39

I just don't get why some apparent women are judging others and saying they're only doing it because it's what a patriarchal society expects.
I mean, WTF.
Are we not allowed our own minds?
We all like different things.
Who's to say what we should be doing?
Fuck that.I'll like what I like, I don't care whether people think I'm a bloke or shallow depending on my likes.
I'll carry on being me.

Holdthedamndoor · 02/06/2019 22:42

No woman thinks she needs nail extensions. No one thinks toy are only worth something or attractive if you have them done. They choose to.

However, it appears theres alot of judging of women if they do get them done.

One poster seem concerned about how a woman wipes her own arse with long nails. I mean, for fucks sake, I am sure a woman would have her nails that long if she had to employ an arse wiper to follow her around.

There been claims nails stop women becoming heart surgeons. Cause yeah, that's why women dont go into surgery as much as men. Cause of acrylics. Hmm

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:45

"I really can't follow your logic. You say you want to destroy the beauty industry, but then tell me "you can do what you like". How does that work? If you destroy the beauty industry, how can I do what I like, if what I like is to wear nail varnish?"

Well if you're still wearing nail varnish then there will still be a market and the beauty industry won't be destroyed will it? Clearly I'd like women to love themselves as they naturally are, which is amazing, but that's a matter of persuasion and discussion, not control. The cosmetics industry tells women something different, that we need products to improve or decorate ourselves. I disagree.

"Destroying the beauty industry removes the choice for women (and men) to do what they like. I mean, what you describing is kind of like totalitarianism."

As I already said women should do what they want, so obviously not like totalitarianism, if that word is to mean anything (BTW men have been actual totalitarians, controlling every aspect of people's lives. They're doing it right now in China, get upset about that, not an imaginary feminist position). Like I said I'm looking forward to when women are free and we don't have huge multi-billion pound industries breathing down our necks telling us what to do and how to be. If women want to keep buying nail varnish or all the other stuff obviously that won't happen. I'll keep pointing out that men don't have to do this though.

LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 22:49

Well yes me too lime. Just peer pressure. But in reality it's part of the bigger picture of shaving, make up etc performing femininity. Nails are just an aspect of i

I don't feel the need to conform to any of that either. DH has jokingly called me Tara as I don't shave my legs. This makes me grow it even longer lol and see it as a pet Grin
Fuck it! I don't care. I'm happy being me and I know he loves me really.
I don't care what people think.
Do you. Not what other people think you should.
I'm so called bloke wise in my grooming, out the door in 10 minutes flat from getting up. Not saying that in a bad way either, we're all different.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:50

I mean how do people think the beauty industry would be destroyed? The answer is mass resistance by women refusing to buy or use the products or services. Women would have to make that choice though. It can't be forced.

I'm sure this was mentioned earlier but some women in Korea are doing exactly that:

www.theguardian.com/world/2018/oct/26/escape-the-corset-south-korean-women-rebel-against-strict-beauty-standards

"Cha is part of a growing movement in South Korea fighting against unrealistic beauty standards that call for women to spend hours applying makeup and perform skincare regimes that involve 10 steps or more at each end of the day. Among their complaints is that women must wake up two hours before work to ensure perfect makeup, meticulously removing dead skin with peeling gel and steam towels before beginning their regimen.

Women sick of the laborious routine have started to post videos on social media of destroyed piles of cosmetics with the catch-cry “escape the corset”, likening makeup to the garments that were part of daily women’s garments for years and worked to constrain bodies into a uniform shape."

whitehalleve · 02/06/2019 22:51

Nah

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 22:52

I chucked away all my makeup, after reading feminist arguments against the feminine corvee. It was so liberating.

LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 22:52

One poster seem concerned about how a woman wipes her own arse with long nails. I mean, for fucks sake, I am sure a woman would have her nails that long if she had to employ an arse wiper to follow her around.

To be fair if so I also asked how someone would scratch their nose arse with big nails lol as I've always wondered Grin

OccasionalKite · 02/06/2019 22:52

I don't think the OP was expecting the Spanish Inquisition!
All she wrote was:
"As a GP who frequently washes her hands, allotment owner and instrument player I really hate the trend for women to have immaculate nails that cost a fortune, scratch people and mean women can't do anything useful. Where t f did this horrible trend come from and how do we give women back the use of their wonderful hands?"

A light-hearted opener, I thought - and certainly no mention of any ban.

Anyway, last time I tried painting my finger nails (last August, I think, for an extended family do), I had to roll up a couple of fags first (cos strands of tobacco curling from your nail varnish is not really a good look), then took my perfectly painted fingernails out to the patio for a fag (i.e. for me, not just my finger nail), and promptly got a gnat glued to middle finger nail, left hand.

I was quite pissed off about that.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/06/2019 22:52

They do seem to have some very extreme regimes Erythronium

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/06/2019 22:53

Im not chucking anything away

That stuffs cost dh a fortune Grin

LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 22:56

They do seem to have some very extreme regimes Erythronium

Sorry, but who does? Confused

LassOfFyvie · 02/06/2019 22:59

Yeah, Lass a ban and something being socially unacceptable are actually two different things. So no there's nothing about a ban here. That's misleading

This is so disingenuous there is little point in responding. Anti- smoking , anti- hunting and anti- drink driving legislation came because of campaigns which led to the banning of smoking in all public places, the banning of hunting and the imposition of strict levels of alcohol.

Smoking and drinking in moderation and still driving are not technically banned but the level of opprobrium, especially for the latter, is such that it might as well be.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 23:00

Korean women.

My makeup was expensive too Rufus, but boy it felt great when I got rid of it. Worth every penny after all those years of looking in the mirror and trying to change my face.

LassOfFyvie · 02/06/2019 23:02

A light-hearted opener, I thought - and certainly no mention of any ban

Again this is so disingenuous. The OP is asking for an anti- nails campaign.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 23:03

I was thinking of campaigns for vegetarianism. I know some extremists would like to ban meat production, but personally I think it's better to persuade people not to eat meat and a lot of other vegetarians do too.

So not disingenuous. If the OP wanted a ban I'm sure she'd have said it. Maybe she'll come back and confirm.

LimeKiwi · 02/06/2019 23:05

How about persuading women and girls that they don't need them, the same way the cosmetics industry spends large amounts of money persuading them that they do? Persuasion or discussion isn't a ban. Nobody is not allowing anything

I'd be well up for that.You don't need them.
A self confidence class I'm always up for though. Don't settle for what people think you should do.
What's wrong with wanting false long blinged nails if that's what you like for you though?
It's not me, but I can see if others do want it then why the hell not.

Erythronium · 02/06/2019 23:06

And like you say smoking isn't banned. What's banned is harming other people with second hand smoke in certain public places. People still smoke, I see them doing it all the time.

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