If We have short hair and wear comfy shoes (AND I CBA to shave my legs.) Maybe we actually are non binary/ trans. they’ll HAVE to listen to us or it’s literal violence.
Yeah, for some reason they don’t seem to like it when people who had previously considered themselves straight ‘c*s’ women realise that we’ve actually been NB all along and try to get our voices heard under the umbrella.
Apparently it’s seen as a bit disingenuous, despite the fact that we gender critical/non-conforming females with short hair and trousers tick many of the boxes for being trans/NB/queer. Odd huh?!
I told my DD last night that if she’d rather do cricket than rounders to just identify as a boy on PE days and they’d have to let her swap. She has short hair and wears trousers and shirt/tie to school instead of an open neck blouse and skirt. She also bought her shoes from the boys section at Clark’s, so she could well fit the definition and nobody could question it even if she didn’t.
She was tempted by the idea but said that she likes boys not girls so she can’t be trans and I explained that she can be a gay trans boy on PE days if she wants, she doesn’t need to change anything about her appearance, can still have a boyfriend and also get to play cricket. Win win.
She said they’d make her change with the boys but DS said no, she’d get her own changing room, so more privacy than in the boys or girls changing rooms.
Many of her friends have ‘come out’ (at 12 years old FFs) as lesbians or pansexuals (she jokes that this means they’re only attracted to pans and kitchen utensils) so I don’t see why she should miss out on doing what she likes just because she doesn’t have a special label.
I say let’s all play the system and see how long it takes for it all to come crumbling down.