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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Mermaids response to piece in Mail tomorrow

574 replies

EweSurname · 25/05/2019 16:14

Looking forward to seeing what drops

www.mermaidsuk.org.uk/press-enquiry-from-the-mail-on-sunday-25th-may-2019.html

We are very proud of the training we offer to schools and we have a proven record of helping teachers to support vulnerable children who simply want to get along with their lessons like any of their classmates.

We are disappointed to find that a school governor has made a covert recording of our training because our presentations are not held in secret and all of the scientific and legal information we offer is publicly available and well-tested.

We are surprised to see that a Church of England rector is complaining about our training when we are included in the CoE guidance on support for transgender people, which can be found here.

Part of the work of Mermaids is giving training talks to schools. These talks are well received and are an important part of how we promote an inclusive and informed approach to trans children and those who support them.

We have been contacted by the Mail on Sunday who are doing an article about one such talk. This post is our response, in accordance with our policy of posting our replies to media queries for the benefit of anyone interested in our activities.

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Ereshkigal · 02/06/2019 13:19

Agree, Captain.

CaptainKirksSpookyghost · 02/06/2019 13:19

I have not problem being 'silenced' as you like to call it

Sorry but i need to quote this twice "as i like to call it"

You've genuinely cheered me up, i didn't even use the term silenced.

Ereshkigal · 02/06/2019 13:21

I will not spend a minute of my time engaging with people who deny gender as a social construct

I'll wager that the vast majority of posters on this thread, if not all, see gender as a social construct.

CaptainKirksSpookyghost · 02/06/2019 13:21

"as you like to call it"

😂

OldCrone · 02/06/2019 13:25

camaleon
Do you understand the difference between sex and gender?

AlwaysComingHome · 02/06/2019 13:28

Do you understand the difference between sex and gender?

Maybe camaleon took a GCSE in it.

camaleon · 02/06/2019 13:31

*I will not spend a minute of my time engaging with people who deny gender as a social construct

We don't, it is a social construct. Sex is not*

I expressed myself wrong; I meant people who see gender as social construct but not ethnicity.

It is not you who has intervened just to 'advise' others to ignore me, or called me a goader or posted some sealion(?) photo. But others have and it makes no sense to continue. I never engage this much and I don't think it is useful for anybody involved.

AlwaysComingHome · 02/06/2019 13:33

No, you haven't. Trans people do exist.

If by ‘trans people’ you mean people who think they are in the wrong body, you are correct. Those exist.

If by ‘trans people’ you mean people who are actually in the wrong body, you are wrong. Those do not exist.

Datun · 02/06/2019 13:38

I expressed myself wrong; I meant people who see gender as social construct but not ethnicity.

Who cares? Seriously. Whether ethnicity is socially constructed, or related to ancestry, has got nothing to do with whether gender is a social construct.

I've never heard such an irrational justification for an argument.

You won't engage over the issue, because you disagree over an entirely separate issue.

OldCrone · 02/06/2019 13:39

I meant people who see gender as social construct but not ethnicity.

So do you support Rachel Dolezal's right to claim to be African American?

Datun · 02/06/2019 13:40

camaleon, start a thread about the definition of race, ethnicity and nationality.

Stop trying to shoehorn it into a discussion about the regulatory capture of transgender lobbyists.

camaleon · 02/06/2019 13:51

*I meant people who see gender as social construct but not ethnicity.

So do you support Rachel Dolezal's right to claim to be African American?*

This is so ill-intentioned. At least twice I have repeated that self-ID is never enough for claiming to belong to any of the identities that are associated with other social constructs.

I will not start any other thread on race/ethnicity and nationality Datun. I might be naive/irrational/goader/derailer, etc (love the sisterhood in here). I might be someone who never went passed my GCSE (is that laughable?). I find it difficult/rude not to answer questions addressed to me: must be my girly upbringing + naivety. i have been following this long enough to know it was a mistake to engage, particularly if my view is not settled and does not conform to the majority.

Now I will try harder to pretend i am not the ignorant woman who keeps reading and can't help but answer because she was told this is the ladylike thing to do,

WhyNotMe40 · 02/06/2019 13:55

As I see it gender is a social construct. Sex is biological.
In the same way citizenship is a social construct, and ethnicity is biological.
Does that help?
So when people refer to Italian they may actually be referring to ethnicity or citizenship - it can be unclear. In the same way Jewish could refer to ethnicity or religion, again unclear. Trans ideology is trying to co-opt the biological term woman, to mean the gender social construct of feminine stereotypes. Personally I am biologically a woman yet not at all feminine and reject gender.
Words need to be clear and mean something....

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 02/06/2019 14:15

The train now derailing at platform 4 is the Women Shut Up Express, calling at all stations to Its Just Too Boring To Go Over All This Shit Again. And Again. And Again. In The Hope Most Posters Give Up and Leave.

Passengers are advised to disembark and take the coach to There Was An OP In Here Somewhere.

Michelle, you're a Star (and your username made DF laugh)

Datun · 02/06/2019 14:22

At least twice I have repeated that self-ID is never enough for claiming to belong to any of the identities that are associated with other social constructs.

I have no idea what this means.

Transgender lobbyists aren't self id-ing to belong to a social construct they are self id -ing to belong to a biological sex.

LangCleg · 02/06/2019 14:45

Gordon Bennett and a decent cup of tea. This thread!

It's the word splatter tactic, isn't it?

justasking111 · 02/06/2019 15:13

Dont know what some folk have been imbibing/inhaling but here is the OP which is about education.

Mermaids response to piece in Mail tomorrow (567 Posts)
Add message | Report | Message poster EweSurname Sat 25-May-19 16:14:48
Looking forward to seeing what drops

www.mermaidsuk.org.uk/press-enquiry-from-the-mail-on-sunday-25th-may-2019.html

We are very proud of the training we offer to schools and we have a proven record of helping teachers to support vulnerable children who simply want to get along with their lessons like any of their classmates.

We are disappointed to find that a school governor has made a covert recording of our training because our presentations are not held in secret and all of the scientific and legal information we offer is publicly available and well-tested.

We are surprised to see that a Church of England rector is complaining about our training when we are included in the CoE guidance on support for transgender people, which can be found here.

Part of the work of Mermaids is giving training talks to schools. These talks are well received and are an important part of how we promote an inclusive and informed approach to trans children and those who support them.

We have been contacted by the Mail on Sunday who are doing an article about one such talk. This post is our response, in accordance with our policy of posting our replies to media queries for the benefit of anyone interested in our activities.

TheBullshitGoesOn · 02/06/2019 15:21

Back to the subject - much of the trans ideology angers me. But the assault on children, particularly those that are female, homosexual, autistic, gender-nonconforming or abused angers me beyond anything.

There is a special place in Hell/Hades/Kur/Uffern/Lake of Fire (pick underworld of choice) for those who promote or enable this ideology in schools.

HumberElla · 02/06/2019 15:48

Ok good, back where we were then.

Yes, targeting schools is particularly low. I’m also reserving a special place in one of the above afterlife venues for all those MPs and politicians who have had our concerns explained to them, and who still choose silence. I won’t ever forgive them their cowardice.

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 02/06/2019 16:15

for anyone who can't locate the link to the article itself in this rather, erm, meandering thread, here it is:

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7070773/Vicar-resigns-schools-plan-eight-year-old-pupils-sex-change-secret-parents.html

It turns out being on the right side of history turns you into a thoroughly unpleasant person. both the mermaids trainer and the headteacher i the recording sound awful, utterly unable to deal with any viewpoint that doesn't match their own.

and I would be bloody furious if my children's school decided to gaslight them in this manner and also keep it a secret. it's completely unacceptable.

TheBullshitGoesOn · 02/06/2019 18:36

Oh yes, Humber. Definitely space for those MPs who have opted to stay silent and put their own career ahead of safeguarding vulnerable children.

justasking111 · 03/06/2019 21:45

There is an injunction now against the Birmingham parents.

www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/midlands-news/anderton-park-school-protest-police-16365581

justasking111 · 03/06/2019 21:50

The parents are trying to raise money for legal help now. The reasons why are interesting.

www.gofundme.com/f/injunction-against-anderton-park-parent-protests

ZebrasAreBras · 03/06/2019 23:45

Gosh. That is interesting. This has been a very long and derailed thread - so I can't remember if this has been linked to already:

www.transgendertrend.com/no-outsiders-queering-primary-classroom/

The No Outsiders and CHIPS program analysed here, including information on the behaviour of Andrew Moffat. It is not pretty reading.

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