I will heed your words, Cwenthryth and return to the topic at hand forthwith.
But before I do, I will address this comment from RobinMoiraWhite first:
Discrimination imposed to deal with illusory fears - no.
Excluding males, even those with GRCs, from an exclusively female-only set aside is, of course, discrimination. We do it all the time in all kinds of other settings - disabled parking spaces, awards or scholarships just for BAME persons, events just for children or elderly people. Where it serves a legitimate purpose, indirect discrimination is perfectly legal and justified.
Maintaining women's sex-based rights and therefore excluding all males, regardless of identity, for our safety, privacy, dignity and to redress sex-based discrimination and the inequality we face is such a legitimate purpose.
The vast majority of women are not willing to let males into female-only set asides, however nice those you know are to you personally. (You could start by asking them about Karen White or BalldeMort. They might feel brave enough to answer you honestly.)
All surveys done over the last 24 months show a minimum of 75% of women reject self-id outright. As public awareness grows, that number continues to rise. In 18 months of talking about this with every one I met, not one woman consented to sharing our set asides with males.
Although I feel no need to convince you of our collective views on this and you certainly don't need to believe a word I say, if you are what is generally known as an old style transsexual, then I would urge you to consider how much damage this transgender ideology and legislation has already done and continues to do. TRAs and the assorted perverts and predators who have been emboldened by recent developments are giving all of you a bad name. And the backlash will affect you all, too.
On the illusory fear. There have been no reports in the UK (that I am aware of) of a male who identify as trans being attacked in male-only toilets. I am about to go shopping in a supermarket though where a male who identifies as trans attacked a ten-year-old girl in a female-only toilet. I've witnessed countless incidents of sexual harassment in the mixed-sex changing rooms in my local swimming pool, and no matter how often I complained, it hasn't stopped. At a women's rights meeting I attended last year, tge organisers asked for a show of hands and 100% of the women present had been victims of male physical and sexual violence. Including me. And we were not talking about a hand on a knee or a quick boob grab.
So, no our fears are not illusory, they are real and based on our own experiences. As Julie Bindel said at the Edinburgh event, one thing all females on this planet have in common is the fear of male violence.
A male who glibly dismisses it as illusory and prioritises his own desire for inclusion among women over our need to exclude all males for our own safety, is demonstrating nothing other than male socialization.
So, let me make this absolutely clear:
any male who violates female boundaries by using female-only set asides without the consent of every single female using them or intending to use them, is engaged in an act of aggression against females and displays nothing other than the male entitlement that treats females as lesser humans.