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Caroline farrow support thread 2

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ilovejeffgoldblum · 04/04/2019 10:09

Hi I'm a long time lurker, who read with disgust the last thread and wants to send Thanks, to caro. I've scanned since last thread finished for new one but no luck! Hope no one minds if I start one!

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TimeLady · 04/04/2019 20:20

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nicenewdusters · 04/04/2019 20:21

The following are extracts from the General Medical Council's guidance entitled "Good Medical Practice." 22 April 2013:

"When communicating publically, including speaking to or writing in the media ..... you should remember when using social media that communications intended for friends or family may become more widely available."

"You must make sure that your conduct justifies your patients' trust in you and the public's trust in the profession."

As Harrop is bound by the conditions of this document it does make you wonder why he's still practicing given the GMC are aware of his "campaigning" ?

I would absolutely refuse treatment from this person. I like my doctor to be calm. professional, non-judgemental and mature. If I want to take my chances and be treated by somebody driven by ideologies of hate, exclusion and misogyny I'll advertise on Twitter.

There's also a GMC requirement for doctors to declare if their judgement or performance could be affected by a condition or its treatment. I hesitate to carry out an internet diagnosis, but this individual would appear to have various psychological issues . Certainly a barely controlled rage. An inability to be congruent - by demonstrating narcissism and bullying on line with presumably the hiding of these traits with patients. Also an inability to accept difference in others without internalising this and the accompanying rage.

StrangeLookingParasite · 04/04/2019 20:22

"nine-irons"

Arf.

Carowiththegoodhair · 04/04/2019 20:24

If anyone has the shots of who was following the cartoon account I would be grateful.

Fallingirl · 04/04/2019 20:27

They say they're suing Mumsnet. I can't imagine that will stand up in court, but it'll be interesting to see the evidence presented. The NBP is telling everyone that Mumsnet is full of transphobic abuse, but in court they would need to prove that, and I don't see how they can.

We should probably expect plenty of goady posts fishing for screenshots for the foreseeable future. Bunburry is going to be busy.
Grey rock, everybody!

As for The Unhinged getting ever more unhinged; for some reason I can’t stop being surprised he really would stoop this low, but that’s just me trying to explain ot rationally, which may not apply.

You really got to them Caro. I am so, so sorry and truely appalled at the abuse you and yours are being subjected to. Of all the abuse we have safly come to expect, this really is off the scale.

I sincerely hope the conversation you had last night is still helping you weather this storm.

Always trust and remember the support you have from more women than you will ever know from here.

Atrength and Flowers to you.

Estcarpwitch · 04/04/2019 20:29

Caro love and positive vibes coming your way. Flowers

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 20:29

Didn’t this also happen, something similar, to Lisa Muggeridge?

SharkTank · 04/04/2019 20:31

This is what that the cartoon account says now
Sorry, don’t know if it was different earlier on.

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JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 20:32

A reminder about Grey Rock, please try and refrain from engaging with them

www.aconsciousrethink.com/6158/gray-rock-method-dealing-narcissist/

nicenewdusters · 04/04/2019 20:38

Just looked at Kiwifarms for the first time Shock . Makes MN look like the WI.

Caro You have a barrier around you of your family and friends, and goodness knows how many people here on MN. The sun is shining brightly on these hate filled inadequates. This will come to an end. You'll still have what you have now. So will they - nothing, but an empty life, soul and heart.

RepealTheGRA · 04/04/2019 20:44

Just looked at Kiwifarms for the first time shock . Makes MN look like the WI

I’m far too wimpy for that Blush I lurked for over 10 years before posting here. It was only needing to ask questions about this crap that forced me to do so.

Absolutepowercorrupts · 04/04/2019 20:46

nice new

I just looked at Kiwi farms too for the first time. Good grief, the lying lawyer and harrop think MN is bad!
I may regret asking this but what is a LOLCOW thread.

Caro support to you 💐
This abuse is horrific and I just don't understand why the police won't act. Ok, because men

GeordieGenes · 04/04/2019 20:54

Kiwifarms is something else... saying that, they do have a lot of respect for Mumsnet and the feminist backlash against gender.

TimeLady · 04/04/2019 20:55

lolcow (plural lolcows) (Internet, slang, derogatory) A person whose eccentric or foolish behaviour can be exploited to amuse onlookers.

It's Kiwifarm's raison d'etre

They are very good at archiving, btw.

RedDogsBeg · 04/04/2019 20:57

First look at Kiwi Farms for me too, they certainly pull no punches. Also wondering about LOLCOW?

nicenewdusters · 04/04/2019 20:57

lolcow is the name for the people they make a thread about because they're like cows that can be milked for amusement!

That site is scurrilous but it's got some interesting info and timelines on it. Feel like I should wash my hands now I've looked at it. I wonder if Harrop etc don't complain about them publically - or do they? - because who would want to draw attention to what is said about them on there? No careful use of pronouns I noticed.

Carowiththegoodhair · 04/04/2019 20:58

The account is claiming my screenshot is photoshopped. Hmm

SharkBastard · 04/04/2019 20:59

Quite concerning, and Kiwi Farms needs to get on it already

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gilchrist168 · 04/04/2019 21:00

I don't think I've posted here since the great Ocado boycott.

Beyond words as to what has been happening to you Caro. I'm disgusted at the continued failure of the police to protect you and your family. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Flowers

RedDogsBeg · 04/04/2019 21:00

Of course they are Caro, next they'll say they were hacked.

RedDogsBeg · 04/04/2019 21:03

Caro the poster nauticant said earlier in the thread that they had archived the posts, I think, sure they'd confirm and provide the evidence if you asked?

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 21:07

Well MINE ISN’T! It’s not from my phone. Adrian was following them and that is a fact.

ToeToToe · 04/04/2019 21:10

Sorry Adrian - you were caught with the proverbial 'smoking gun'.

2 separate posters (at least) here have got the screenshots.

nauticant · 04/04/2019 21:13

Additionally they could make a quick written note now of what they saw. If needed, a witness statement, relying on a record made at the time, is perfectly good evidence.

Carowiththegoodhair · 04/04/2019 21:16

My screenshots have a time on them. Forwarded to the relevant authorities. Someone has to act.