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Caroline farrow support thread 2

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ilovejeffgoldblum · 04/04/2019 10:09

Hi I'm a long time lurker, who read with disgust the last thread and wants to send Thanks, to caro. I've scanned since last thread finished for new one but no luck! Hope no one minds if I start one!

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Rubyredgirlfriend · 04/04/2019 19:53

Hello Caro.

I’ve lurked for years and have just registered to say I support you Caro. Also thanks to the deeply unpleasant TRAs. I’d describe myself as a liberal person and would have described myself as a liberal feminist. In the past I’vethought that women on the feminist board were too extreme and that there is nothing fear from any trans women or their allies.
The nasty bullying on here of Caro has definitely made me rethink my views.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 04/04/2019 19:54

Did anyone get screenshots of those posts

If not, contact MNHQ, they can probably get them for you.

SharkBastard · 04/04/2019 19:55

How can the police ignore that awful video? This is ridiculous, I was arrested and this person can do all this with no consequences

nauticant · 04/04/2019 19:56

I've sent a message to Caroline providing links to the posts.

Datun · 04/04/2019 19:58

Sunlight.

ToeToToe · 04/04/2019 19:59

I've got screenshots of the posts here, if anyone needs them.

Good job whoever got the screenshot of Adrian Harrop as the only follower of Puppet Boy!! Excellent work.

He's no longer following that account, but Caro has the proof that he was, until attention was drawn to it.

I can't quite believe he's mixed up in this - I mean I knew he was a bit unhinged, but this???? This is a whole other level.

LizzieSiddal · 04/04/2019 19:59

Well people are really showed us their true colours haven't they, what a vile, nasty and dangerous person.

The only upside of the vileness today, is that if the Police do nothing, then the media will be all over this.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 20:00

Also have screenshots

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 20:01

Good job whoever got the screenshot of Adrian Harrop as the only follower of Puppet Boy!! Excellent work.

Both Caro and I have it- the account sent her the video 11 times! I’m not on twitter so DH got the screenshots for me.

Carowiththegoodhair · 04/04/2019 20:05

“I hope you get raped by the gays you hate”.

Sorry. I swore to someone I wouldn’t be a victim but feeling a bit wobbly.

MrsBartlettforthewin · 04/04/2019 20:07

Totally understandable to feel wobbly. Thanks and Gin for you and support.

pombear · 04/04/2019 20:08

Datun they've certainly thrown their own curtains open for the sun to start streaming in, haven't they. Yet so lacking in self-awareness, I don't think they can see it!

Ruby welcome! If you've avoided this board, you may have missed links to this site terfisaslur.com which collates a lot of 'trans ally' support'. It's not pleasant reading, but may also be of interest if you're starting to explore some of the behaviour of those who are using trans rights to shut down women, after seeing what's happening to Caro.

The thread linked below is also a really good intro, if you're interested in why this board has so many posters who are concerned ( also known as, in trans rights activist language, ''extremists')

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me?

ToeToToe · 04/04/2019 20:09

Love & strength to you Caro Thanks

SharkTank · 04/04/2019 20:10

Support for you Caro. I’ve reported those Twitter posts.

StrangeLookingParasite · 04/04/2019 20:11

Occasional poster, mostly lurker and right with you, Caro.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 04/04/2019 20:12

This is awful Caroline. I hope you have someone with you.

Datun · 04/04/2019 20:14

It's a horrible indictment on the way women are considered unimportant.

It would be the work of a moment to get a technical forensic person to get hold of Harrop and Hayden's cyber paper trail. And anyone else's for that matter.

And this is been going on for years and years for Caroline. It's not new. The police are utterly complicit.

There are new guidelines for social media standards coming up. The technology has gone running ahead of the morality. And it has to stop.

ToeToToe · 04/04/2019 20:15

"So, Mr Harrop, what was it that drew you to be the first and only follower of the Puppet Boy account?"

pombear · 04/04/2019 20:15

Caro, totally understandable in the circumstances. Easy for me to say, as I'm not in the storm, but maybe channel last night's 'thread about primate movement that we must not speak of' - hope this gif from Grace on twitter gives you a light moment in the crap:

twitter.com/you_know_nuttin/status/1113726317298634752

InternetArgument · 04/04/2019 20:17

God bless you Caro. These people are sick, and so is the world that succours them.

RedDogsBeg · 04/04/2019 20:18

It is understandable that you feel wobbly Caro, this urgently needs Police action, I know you have little faith in them and I am not surprised but this, along with everything else that's been thrown at you, must be reported again and again. If the Police do nothing then complain, complain, complain far and wide, the Police will have to justify to everyone watching why they took no action and suffer the resulting backlash.

Everyone needs to know and see how you are being targeted - Police, MPs, media.

I am so sorry you and your family are having to endure this.

This latest stunt completely blows away the lie that a certain medical man is not stalking you on social media. It was NO coincidence he just happened to notice your previously private instagram account was open briefly and equally it is NO coincidence he was the ONLY follower of that disgusting account that targeted you.

FloralBunting · 04/04/2019 20:18

Caro, I'm trying to stay back a little because I don't want to give them the attention, but I obviously can't be reticent when you've just received a rape threat. Lord, have mercy. I'm going to say some prayers for you tonight, starting with the prayed to St Michael the archangel.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 04/04/2019 20:18

The thing is - there is always a trail. Nothing is ever ‘gone for good’.

Someone I know (don’t want to give too many details) used to do this for a living - find communications and files for a particular government. Things they thought were gone for good. It’s completely do-able.

To say it’s too much trouble / too difficult is just a lie.

sackrifice · 04/04/2019 20:19

Caro, yesterday's cartoonist was also only followed by Harrop as well.

redredrobins · 04/04/2019 20:19

The people saying Surrey Police need to brought to account can they tweet Surrey police's twitter? I can't as I'm not on twitter or facebook etc.
Would it draw attention to this abuse and the fact the police are ignoring it?