Also anyone interested in researching the development of transgender narratives in relation to the Tavistock and Portman clinics needs to know about this woman
Estela V Welldon
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Estela_V._Welldon
In the 1980s she published this book
Mother, Madonna, Whore: The Idealization and Denigration of Motherhood
you can "look inside" some of the book here via Amazon
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I have not read this book for many years, however I did find it an interesting read. The book was extremely controversial when first published as it focussed on the concept of "perverse mothering" and I can remember the author describing working with what nowadays the MSM would refer to as trans women. Welldon explores narratives in relation to fetishism and perversion in relation to these patients.
Welldon's work is as a psychiatrist working psychoanalytically around forensic issues.
Welldon wrote compellingly about women who sexually abused children. This was at a time when the subject was not covered by the press or understood. She received criticism for this.
Some of her writing was homophobic, understandably as she came from a classical Freudian perspective, now most Freudians think differently about lesbian and gay issues.
The aspect of her book that struck a cord with me, as someone who struggled with gender identity in my early 20s, was that one of the aspects of "perverse mothering" she described was that the mothers of transsexuals (in her limited experience working in a clinic focussing on forensic issues) tended to not validate their children's gender identity.
This was an issue for me. My parents very much wanted a boy and they got me, a girl. I was bullied at school for wearing boys shoes and neither of my parents validated my gender identity.
Welldon also explored Winnicott's concept of the "transitional object" (usually a teddy of comfort blanket that represents the mother to the baby or child when the mother cannot be with the child)
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comfort_object
in relation to "perverse mothering".
Welldon posits that the perverse mother is unable to relate to her child as a small person and instead treat the child as a transitional object, an object that will meet all of her needs and compensate for inadequacies in her own mothering.
This is something I can relate to re my own mother. She was constantly disappointed that I did not meet her needs and she absolutely failed to treat me as a little human being and in many ways experienced me as her property.
I can remember being excited about some concepts within the book but feeling critical of others.
I need to read this book again and I think I have one, possibly 2 copies of it. If I can find 2 copies I am happy to mail one out to a women's organisation. The book is expensive to buy. Also, for an analysis of the historical narrative a 1st edition and revised edition may be useful.
I am not promoting the book as good or bad, but I think it represents a missing link in the narrative of the transgender narrative, especially in relation to the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust.
When Weldon first wrote her book she was hailed as a pioneering specialist in the field of psychoanalytic understanding of perversions.
I think that, at that time, there was a prevalent narrative that MtF transsexuals were fetishists and perverse. Little was written about FtM transgender issues.
I can remember thinking at the time that more work needed to be done to have a more compassionate and nuanced understanding of why people feel they are "born in the wrong body".
Now it feels that the pendulum has swung very far in the opposite direction and I find it very interesting that the same organisation that Welldon worked for, the Portman, has been involved in this about turn.