I struggled a lot with my own identity over this matter.
I was raised liberal, educated in liberal values and to let everyone live as they wished in peace and safe from harm and believe in the concept of liberal democracy and the rule of law.
So legal fictions which have the effect of harming others unintentionally coupled with tactics to silence critical thought over this.
My own identity as liberal in simply asking questions and how people might react negatively to me for asking those difficult questions is something I've lived with for a long time.
I had to really look at and reexamine what liberal values and identity are really about. The two are distantly different. One represents a proper understanding of functionality of society and institutions, the other is superficial and shallow.
I know I do not need validation of my belief in liberal values to have a Liberal identity. I just am.
This needing to have yourself constantly validated and reassured or told you have worth for it, is a phenomenon that goes hand in hand with social media.
All this clicks, likes and retweets? It ultimately doesn't mean anything of value.
Going to sleep at peace with myself was more important in the end. My truth was found in realising I was being duped, manipulated and emotionally blackmailed into second guessing myself. If you are not free to express this, then this is the total opposite of liberal teaching. Ultimately liberalism is all about supporting critical thought and debate.
Freedom to self identify applies to everyone not just one part of the trans community. The problem comes when that's forced on others at the expense of their identity without thought to how to deal with the conflict.
We know there are parents who try to live through their kids. Tiger parents. Parents who insist their kids become doctors or lawyers. Parents who disapprove of choice of their children's partner and try to split them up.
What happens if you got one of these parents involved with gender ideology?
Just how free are Mermaids children?