PersonaNonGarter, there's a simple reason why the right seems more woman-friendly. Their loyalty is to class, and by extension to "one of us." So if you're in a position to be accepted, however tenuously, as one of them, they'll worry less about you being female than a leftist.
Leftist men being officially egalitarian and all have to get their God-given status by birth from elsewhere. Being an actual good human being takes some work. So a lot of them go for the tried and true: maleness. Feminists are the worst because they give the lie to that whole world view just by being there.