It increasingly pisses me off, when experienced social scientists completely ignore power structures, as Butlerdoes here.
Yes, it would actually be lovely if everyone could freely choose genders and behave, or perform, in any way they like, IF we were all completely equal to begin with, and no one was a threat to anyone else, and no one had to do all the shitty unpaid work that noone wants to do. BUT THAT IS NOT THE WORLD WE HAVE.
A social scientist who does not understand that power dynamics influence who do what, should consider doing some research, or retire.