from link above, this seems to be the re-education required by Dr McKinnon:
'Here’s what to do, and not to do, when you do something transphobic
Even people like Martina Navratilova can stumble on trans issues. How you react to that stumble can mean the world to trans people.'
(extract
"The same is true for Navratilova: While she has a close relationship with some trans women, including former pro tennis player Renee Richards, this doesn’t immunize her from having transphobic beliefs or committing transphobic acts.
In this case, there are real, tangible, factual issues with what Navratilova said publicly. A penis has absolutely nothing to do with sport performance. Genitals are irrelevant to hitting a tennis ball, riding a bike, or throwing a javelin. Recognizing this, the International Olympic Committee updated its transgender policy in November 2015 to remove the genital-surgery requirement.
Navratilova is supporting an outdated policy that was deemed unnecessary and unfair to trans women years ago.
Treating trans women with a penis as not ‘real’ women is, indeed, transphobic. Supporting the false claim that trans women can just up and declare themselves female, and that’s it, is transphobic. Being legally recognized as female is a difficult, complicated and sometimes impossible (depending on where one lives) process.
Eventually Navratilova gave what I think was a disingenuous “apology.”
“Ok- I take it back,” she wrote. “Clearly I do t know what u am [sic] talking about. So once again- I will defer to Renee Richards as she certainly knows what she is talking about. I will find that tweet and delete it. All I want is fairness. Thank you.”
I’m not saying Navratilova is a transphobe. That’s not my point at all. But when the overt transphobes, like Julie Bindel, think that you’re on their side, I think that warrants a serious reconsideration of your actions. Navratilova did say she would double back and do some research on the subject to educate herself. I hope she does.
Suggestions on responding to criticism
Yet looking at these exchanges between Navratilova and me, as well as other trans women, how could this have gone better?
I know that being called out publicly never feels good. It’s always embarrassing and feels bad. Yet sometimes people who think their intentions are good make mistakes. Here’s what not to do, as a cisgender person supporting trans inclusion in sports, when someone points out those mistakes.
In the moment, do not make the calling out about you and your feelings. When you step on someone’s toes, and they yell at you to get off, get off their toes and apologize. Definitely don’t demand that they ask you nicely.
Moreover, don’t respond to criticism saying that you might as well not be supportive of the harmed group of people if they’re going to be mean to you about you harming them.
Here’s what you can do.
- Acknowledge that, yes, you did the harmful thing that people are calling attention to.
- Apologize, and mean it. If the harm was public, the apology needs to be public.
- Delete the harmful content (if possible).
- Listen to the criticism and thank the people calling you out. People often only call out if they genuinely want the person to do better.
- Commit to doing better, and put in the work.
I still have hope for Navratilova." (continues)