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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Pile on by TRAs

108 replies

wopbamboo · 09/11/2018 15:42

I am in the middle of a pile on by TRA's on Twitter.

I am not comfortable sharing my anonymous Twitter username on even here yet, but I wanted to ask, when trying to explain your viewpoint on feminism, and you become the subject of a pile on, what do you do?

I am stuck between not giving up, but the more I reply, the more of them pile on.

Help.

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wopbamboo · 09/11/2018 23:13

Beholdtheflorist I'm sorry someone was a dick to Hetty on here.

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theOtherPamAyres · 09/11/2018 23:14

I've seen some very good exchanges between GCs and some naive, ill-informed young women. Basically, they are nice people and worth a few interactions.

HM: Of course TWAW and I don't have a problem with sharing facilities and services with them
GC: What about (shows photo of Jess Bradley)? Or (shows photo of the vile TW in a ladies toilet, wanking and boasting about it on Twitter)
HM: They are not transwomen. There need to be checks to stop people claiming to be trans.

GC: So you agree that some transwomen are actually men? You agree that there needs to be a diagnosis of gender dysphoria and a Gender Recognition Certificate? If so, you're one of us. Welcome.

HM: Silence

NotTerfNorCis · 09/11/2018 23:16

Silence or 'teeeeeerf!' followed by a block.

JessicaJonesJacket · 09/11/2018 23:20

Tbh I block them. I have been called 'the fastest blocker on Twitter Grin Life is too short to argue with idiots.

LurkingLizzy · 09/11/2018 23:26

Yep, women who disagree with you are 'ill-informed', 'handmaidens' or 'idiots'. Nice.

PineappleSunrise · 09/11/2018 23:28

No, women who can't define what a woman actually is without resorting to stereotypes are 'ill-informed', 'handmaidens' or 'idiots.'

See? It makes loads of sense when you spell it out instead of taking the alt-facts approach.

LurkingLizzy · 09/11/2018 23:30

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wopbamboo · 09/11/2018 23:34

Lizzy if you are just going to be argumentative and insulting perhaps you should leave this thread.

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Badgerthebodger · 09/11/2018 23:38

Hi LurkingLizzy sadly I think your nakedly transparent attempt at gaining screenshots has failed but I’ll give you a B for effort as you continue to try and goad.

In this part of the internet we are predominantly concerned with women and girl’s rights. It’s not surprising that nobody wants to engage in a thinly veiled attempt to screenshot posts.

LurkingLizzy · 09/11/2018 23:38

Lizzy if you are just going to be argumentative and insulting perhaps you should leave this thread.

Coming so soon after non-transphobic women have been insulted on here, I have to admire your complete lack of self-awareness.

foxyliz26 · 09/11/2018 23:39

I thought I would never say this , after being out as a lesbian for many decades ,part of the original Gay Liberation front ,worked on gay switchboards,and castigated on many threads for defending Trans rights, both me and my G/F are now no longer going along with the Trans narritive

I visited am out of town gay centre for a meeting this week , and was treated like a stranger in my own country ,the place was overrun with Trans people and others ie straight men claiming to be Trans ,making me and the other lesbian I was with ,feel very intimidated just whilst trying to find the room the meeting was in

we were jostled and cajoled and called a TERF

These new TRA arent like the nice old school people we call friends

sackrifice · 09/11/2018 23:40

Are the public service announcement saddos on a night out by the way

Why, nobody paying you enough attention?

wopbamboo · 09/11/2018 23:41

Oh foxyliz I'm sorry, that's really shit.

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PineappleSunrise · 09/11/2018 23:45

These new TRA arent like the nice old school people we call friends

Yes. I know. Sad

Badgerthebodger · 09/11/2018 23:55

Foxyliz that is just outrageously horrible. God. Brave and courageous LGB campaigners - oh no, not welcome here, we only want those who are willing to suspend reality

LangCleg · 10/11/2018 09:24

'Dick centred disgrace' ring any bells?

I missed all the drama but to me dick-centred means put males first not has a dick.

HTH.

Keeptrudging · 10/11/2018 09:26

I'm also in the middle of a twitter pile on. I use a different name on twitter. It's very wearying. I amuse myself by looking to see who has liked tra posts. Majority is a bunch of woke students, mostly quite young, a disappointing large amount of them girls. The odd older male transitioner. I would walk away, because it's tedious, but in amongst all the wokeness, there are a bunch of people liking my posts, and some of them are starting to tentatively comment. Got to keep on, much as I want to block, as protecting children from being forcefed gender claptrap is very important to me.

SlowlyShrinking · 10/11/2018 12:25

Yy, ‘dick-centred’ means putting males first, not being a male that actual males are dick centred goes without saying

Mrskeats · 10/11/2018 12:26

I just block people. Lots of idiots on twitter

Idkwtf · 10/11/2018 12:27

Yes don't wrestle with the pig's you just make them stronger and happier

Idkwtf · 10/11/2018 12:29

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Yambabe · 10/11/2018 12:50

ODFO idk. No need for that goady shit.

waterlego6064 · 10/11/2018 12:53

This is a good thread. I get piled on by TRAs on Twitter, and have often taken it quite personally. I think about my favourite well-informed GC Mumsnetters and think: ‘I bet this doesn’t happen to them’. It makes me feel like I’m bad at debate.

So, although it’s shit, it’s also reassuring that others get the same treatment.

Some great advice here; I need to spend more time ignoring and blocking rather than engaging, as engaging just makes me anxious and spend days overthinking it.

wopbamboo · 10/11/2018 12:57

I dont take it personally, I try to keep it factual. I do hope some of the young girls watching the conversation are perhaps seeing both sides of the scenario.

It does feel relentless at times.

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Weezol · 10/11/2018 13:06

My inner pedant demands that I point out the authentic usage is 'pwned'

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