Sorry I haven't stuck around to flesh out what I'm saying but it's hard when you're the only one on a thread. But Langcleg,
So tough cookies, my friend. You reap what you sow. And you sowed Karen White. Embrace her or admit you were wrong and become a right wing fundamentalist Christian feminist like the rest of FWR.
This I don't think is right. This debate polarises people just like all big debates do (Brexit, anyone?) But the answer isn't at the extremes is it. The answer is never going to be at the extremes. It isn't "tough cookies, you think trans women are women so that means you think Karen White should be in a women's prison come hell or high water", just like it isn't, "tough cookies, you think trans women are men so that means you have to send 70 year old Isla who transitioned 45 years ago (including full surgical reassignment) to a men's prison for losing control of her car and hitting a pedestrian".
Why would you want to push people to one extreme or the other? You're not the only ones doing it, the TRAs on Twitter do it too, and neither side is right. It can't be either or, it simply can't be, because if it is someone will always lose. And they will lose BIG. The answer HAS to be some degree of subjectivity, surely? Forcing people to polarise just means asking people to pick who they would prefer to throw under a bus doesn't it?
Most people don't want to throw anybody under a bus. It's playing their emotions and their allegiances to tell them that they have to choose.