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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

AIBU to think we are STILL losing the fight?

47 replies

WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:08

Two such depressing headlines this morning, I find it hard to believe things will ever change. Please, give me some hope!

Topshop/Philip Green [https://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2018/oct/05/topshop-axes-penguin-pop-up-to-promote-feminist-book-in-store]

Brett Kavanaugh [https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2018/oct/05/brett-kavanaugh-us-senate-vote-supreme-court?utm_term=R3VhcmRpYW4gVG9kYXkgVUstMTgxMDA2&utm_source=esp&utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=GuardianTodayUK&CMP=GTUK_email]

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WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:11

Sorry, link fail Brett Kavanagh

Philip Green

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Frankenterfer · 06/10/2018 07:11

It's pretty shit, just been grumbling to my husband. I don't shop at top shop but imagine many trans folk might, hence what happened there. As for what is going on in America, it's depressing.

Sitting here in my PJs wondering what I can do in a practical sense. I feel useless.

tediousnamechange · 06/10/2018 07:14

I think there's a fuck load to be fought yet but the Nobel peace prize winners are a highlight and I'm yet to be totally won over by the person behind that pop up. Plus, it's likely to work in her favour to be honest; more publicity.

KatVonGulag · 06/10/2018 07:17

Philip green is an awful man

tediousnamechange · 06/10/2018 07:18

The kavanagh thing is horrendous but let's face it, his reputation is forever scarred and linked to what he did.

Amy Schumer bring arrested in the demos is good publicity for the metoo/ feminist cause.

In many ways perhaps the media coverage of these things will wake the next generation to be less woke.

WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:28

The other depressing thing IS the next generation. My dd is 15yrs and thinks she is a feminist. She’s not because she is so bloody woke about trans issues she’s blind to the damage they do to the feminist cause. I’ve tried to talk to her about it but it ends up with an enormous rolling of the eyes and ‘you’re a transphobic dinosaur’ type situation.

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Charliethefeminist · 06/10/2018 07:31

Imagine being Julie Bindel and watching the slide over the last 15 years.

WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:32

Scarred reputation yes but still being actively put in one of the most powerful legal roles in the USA?! There’s no victory there I’m sad to say. The message is loud and clear,

Dear #metoo, women everywhere,

You can complain, make accusations, be victims of sexual assault but we will STILL get our way.

Love,
Men

It doesn’t mean we shouldn’t keep fighting though of course.

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StealthPolarBear · 06/10/2018 07:32

What happened in top shop. I did read it but it wasn't clear ehy the stand went

WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:36

JulieBindel is absolutely awesome. I wish I could sit her down with my dd!

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WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 07:36

@stealthpolarbear because Philip Green said so apparently

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tediousnamechange · 06/10/2018 07:38

Dammit lost a post.

Yes, I think I've woken feeling overly positive. Finding Tanith Lloyd this eeek royally cheered me up. She's they type of feminist woman's hour should be plugging over pink Curtis woman. Ugh I'm sorry your dd thinks like that.

And true, about K. Whips up a lot of rage though. Disrespectful, nasty, angry women is what we need.

tediousnamechange · 06/10/2018 07:41

Regarding the young woke, could I pop a link to my thread for which I've put on a work-overalls-name change for as I'm a wee bit worried about the content of some teaching material my son's school are using.

I'm going to write to the author when I've gathered some more info gained good phrases to use.

tediousnamechange · 06/10/2018 07:42

Anyone know about the No Outsiders in Our Schools book/ pack? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3385878-anyone-know-about-the-no-outsiders-in-our-schools-book-pack

SpannerInTheWorks · 06/10/2018 07:45

And this

24 states could ban abortion in two years if Brett Kavanaugh is confirmed

www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2018/jun/30/abortion-supreme-court-law-anthony-kennedy

I look at the previous generations, the suffragettes and our mothers who fought so hard for women's rights, and I just don't know where they drew their strength from. This is so exhausting and so bloody depressing.

StealthPolarBear · 06/10/2018 07:45

And why did he do that? All of a sudden I mean?

StealthPolarBear · 06/10/2018 07:45

Spanner oh no!

RealGhouls · 06/10/2018 07:59

To be clear the Top Shop thing was trans-inclusive 'feminism'.

0hCrepe · 06/10/2018 08:02

Maybe he did it because penguin had previously published a biography about him that he didn’t like and because he’s a misogynist.

WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 08:02

Who knows Stealth. I bet that if it had been a stand promoting transgender literature no-one would have dared to take it down...Hmm

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WaltzingIntoTheTide · 06/10/2018 08:03

Is it @RealGhouls - can you tell me more about it? I haven’t read the book.

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Frankenterfer · 06/10/2018 08:04

@RealGhouls I missed that.

RealGhouls · 06/10/2018 08:13

Yes @mimmymum was gloating on Twitter that um, we were complaining that it had been cancelled but actually it was trans-inclusive so hahaha. I don't quite get her logic, but there we go.

twitter.com/mimmymum/status/1048238449294278656

twitter.com/mimmymum/status/1048235132707061762

Charlie Cragg is a trans lady who sells nail decals. And that means she's feminist because all transwomen are feminist, by definition, because they so, just like transwomen are women, again because they so.

This is Charlie's website

nailtransphobia.com/sexual-health/stds-and-stis-homosexual/

I'm not sure if it's been hacked, because you just can't tell with these people. I mean literal Poe's Law.

Charlie's Twitter does product placement for hair removal and other well known feminist causes. twitter.com/Charlie_Craggs/status/1044993894008705024

Apparently it has a chapter from well known 'feminist'/exploiter of tween girls Zoella. No I'm not joking.

RealGhouls · 06/10/2018 08:18

Dear lord what a horrendous fatuous person

twitter.com/Charlie_Craggs/status/1021447963443441664
twitter.com/Charlie_Craggs/status/1025367248356237313

"TO ALL THE MEN SLIDING IN MY DMS THE ONLY THING I TOP IS THE NEWS SWEETIE COME CORRECT"

twitter.com/Charlie_Craggs/status/1039242803665166336

RealGhouls · 06/10/2018 08:28

I suspect some of the authors are rather more sound, but they don't seem to have exercised much editorial judgement it's just 'whatever you want to write about'