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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Why do TRAs keep using black women when defending TWAW?

78 replies

ScienceIsTruth · 04/08/2018 11:44

I saw this tweet the other day, and it never fails to shock me when they keep using this argument.

They've been asked not to, and been told why it's offensive, so why do they persist?

Do they honestly think it will endear others to their cause?

I really don't get how they even thought it made sense, or was relevant. To me it makes no sense at all as the 2 subjects have absolutely nothing in common.

They also don't seem to be worried about it alienating people.

It's a bit like saying seahorses are the same as black horses, when they're so obviously not.

Why do TRAs keep using black women when defending TWAW?
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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 04/08/2018 12:21

It's because they seem themselves as an oppressed minority in the same way as black people are an oppressed minority fighting for their rights.

It's a deliberately false equivalence designed to make people think that transphobic is the same sort of thing as racism.

IAmInsignificunt · 04/08/2018 12:52

Because they want to be bottom of the oppression heap. They work out who they think most people see as oppressed and try to compare themselves to them and then try to slip under them.

It’s racist.

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 04/08/2018 12:55

Generally speaking there does seem to be overlap between male supremacy and white supremacy.

Some people seem to see womanhood as a prize that they get to take from us because they're more important. The (racist) argument then is: you can't give the prize to these even less important people and still justify withholding it from me

sociopathsunited · 04/08/2018 12:55

May I quote the tweet...."If black women really were women"

Well.

I knew you could be a woman and have a ladypenis. I didn't know that your skin wasn't allowed to be dark if you were to qualify as a woman, irrespective of genitals and chromosomes.

Colour me educated and slap me with a live trout, you live and learn.

BiologyMatters · 04/08/2018 12:57

But if you saw a group of black women in the street, and you wanted to refer to them, you'd just call them women. Unless you're racist, then you might make the distinction of them being black.

OlennasWimple · 04/08/2018 12:59

In addition to the above, because white men are over-represented in the TRA movement and it doesn't really occur to them that the person that they are engaging with on SM might not also be white (because white is their default). It's supposed to guilt trip the other person, whilst establishing their own "woke dude bro" credentials

Personally, I find it tends to cement my suspicions that I'm reading the words of a bigotted misogynist

Shampooeeee · 04/08/2018 13:01

Because they are racist as well as sexist and homophobic?

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 04/08/2018 13:06

Just read the tweet properly. We do just call black women 'women' you absolute cuntweasels. Because they are.

Yambabe · 04/08/2018 13:09

Erm. Might just be me, but I thought the trans was short for transitioned, not meaning across from.

That's one of the reasons cis makes my teeth itch, cos it's used out of context.....

Ereshkigal · 04/08/2018 13:10

Astounding lack of self awareness.

Bowlofbabelfish · 04/08/2018 13:19

It’s a combination of things. Victim laddering, false equivalence and thought terminating cliche.

No one decent wants to be thought of as racist. So if someone’s arguing with you all you have to do is insinuate in some way that they are racist/bigoted etc. Now your opponent is on the back foot, having to explain that they aren’t racist and they are not able to argue the point that they were making.

It stops the argument dead.

Bowlofbabelfish · 04/08/2018 13:20

Should also say that women are socialised to JADE ( justify apologise defend and explain) so this also appeals to that.

IAmInsignificunt · 04/08/2018 13:22

Should also say that women are socialised to JADE ( justify apologise defend and explain) so this also appeals to that.

Gosh we need a thread on this alone!

Ereshkigal · 04/08/2018 13:24

It’s a combination of things. Victim laddering, false equivalence and thought terminating cliche.

Yes!

LinoleumBlownapart · 04/08/2018 13:25

May I quote the tweet...."If black women really were women"...actually they said "If black women were truly women"

Truly not really, re-colour and re-slap yourself. Grin

Maybe this person doesn't think any women are truly women, regardless of their skin colour. Words usually trip people up in the end.

sociopathsunited · 04/08/2018 13:46

Oh poop, I misquoted them...oh well, that's what comes from being too nauseated to read it a second time.

I'm colouring myself happy with a bacon sandwich right now.

sociopathsunited · 04/08/2018 13:47

I think my hubby might be woman enough for them - he has a penis. It's not a lady penis though. It's very definitely a male penis. But it's white. Maybe he'll get a free pass for that....

TransplantsArePlants · 04/08/2018 13:49

It's so they can accuse you of being racist, make your lady-doubt kick in so you shut up.

Ereshkigal · 04/08/2018 13:55

They've been asked not to, and been told why it's offensive, so why do they persist?

Because they are narcissistic types who are only concerned with beating you in an argument. They have no empathy or moral compass.

I find this parroting back of your words even though they don't make any sense quite a common tactic of transactivists.

Notevilstepmother · 04/08/2018 14:02

I think this is why they aren’t getting anywhere.

I know what I know. I don’t care if someone is black, white, brown, gay, straight, rich, poor, upper class, working class, middle class whatever. I don’t care if you wear a bikini or a hijab or anything in between. I don’t care my friend James wears make up and shaves his legs. I don’t care that someone I know is now called Jessica when she used to be Stan (all names changed for privacy).

I know I’m not a bigot. I know what’s real and what isn’t. Biology is real. The rights of one group don’t mean they can walk over the rights of another.

They try to accuse us of racism and/or homophobia to try to make it seem like we are bigots. It’s not working.

TheMostBeautifulDogInTheWorld · 04/08/2018 14:06

Never mind false equivalence. The equating of black women to TWs is an outright racist (and misogynist) statement. When a white man says it (and it always is a white man) he is calling up centuries of history in which black women have been considered lesser than white women, and not just lesser in the simple racist sense but less female. More masculine. Less "beautiful". It is about the most dog-whistling, loaded, history-ridden thing that white man can say, short of what he really thinks which is that black women are not really human at all.

It is a truly vile comparison to make.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 04/08/2018 14:22

Because they're good cover - like the wolf in RRH who dresses up as Gran - your mind really doesn't want to hold the extremes of Loving Gran and Dangerous Predator - thus those opposite ends of the spectrum thoughts causes cognitive dissonance - stops a person dead in their tracks from confusion normally.

tl;dr predators know how to disguise themselves and their intent well.

RedToothBrush · 04/08/2018 14:27

Its because they are bigoted arseholes trying not to look like the bigoted arseholes they are, so they shout 'hey look at the squirrel!'. So you don't analyse militant trans ideology.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 04/08/2018 14:27

The extremes are "I am not a racist" and then being accused of being a "racist/bigot". It "throws one off".

That's what predators want - that moment of confusion/shock - they sense the vulnerability of their target and move in with more attacks using false facts. It's designed to silence the opposition.

The same tactics are used by abusers in coercive control /intimate partner violence. Those same tactics are utilised by politicians to confuse the electorate to get their way (Brexit).

womanformallyknownaswoman · 04/08/2018 14:29

Its because they are bigoted arseholes trying not to look like the bigoted arseholes they are, so they shout 'hey look at the squirrel!'. So you don't analyse militant trans ideology.

Exactly.