I forgot to do a shout out to the venue too - they had a rainbow haired trans / non binary security person inside monitoring the queue which I thought was a stroke of genius. Never seen so many uncomfortable women. The security guys were lovely, I left early and one offered to escort me out through the car park for my own safety 'ah no it's okay' i said, 'I'm not transphobic, if I get any comments I'll just explain I'm not one of the rad fems' His face relaxed, 'you seem nice' he said. 'Do you agree with what was being said at that meeting?' 'No not at all' I replied, 'in fact it sickened me' 'Me too' he said, then pointed to the protesters outside 'I'm definitely on their side' he said and winked. Nice end to the evening.
This read likes very bad fan fiction.
Firstly no one gave a shit about the security guard with rainbow hair, she was very nice. She definitely didn't tell anyone she was "non-binary" or have you assumed her gender based on her hair?
I had multi colour hair as a yoof, wasn't non binary.
Secondly what you have just implied is that the security guard "on your side" thought the protesters were dangerous.
And that you potentially thought they were dangerous and would need to tell them you were like those nasty radfems.