My View on gender and sexuality and conversion therapy
SEX and GENDER
The terms sex and gender are used by people interchangeably to mean male or female.
I am using the term SEX as biological sex as determined by sex chromosomes, genes, primary and secondary sex characteristics.
I am using the term GENDER to mean Men, Male or Women, Female or Non-Binary Gender.
I am using the term GENDER IDENTITY to mean a persons internal sense of gender.
For the majority of people their gender identity will be the same as their biologically determined sex. Through the socialization process, children are taught what is expected, and accepted, of them as a boy or girl virtually from birth.
By the age of three to four most children display behaviors and select activities typical of their sex, but that is not always the case. Children are also aware by age three or four of what gender they identify with.
For those that fit in with society’s expectations for their biological sex the meaning of gender probably will never be questioned. After all, they fit the mold. Those who are identified as gender non-conforming will display cross gender preferences atypical of society expectations for their assigned gender.
Gender non-conforming children may or may not develop a gender identity different to their assigned sex. This does not mean they will be diagnosed with the condition gender incongruence (Gender Dysphoria). They may be masculine girls or feminine boys or develop a homosexual identity
Only those children who are insistently and persistently stating they are not a boy or girl knowing this is their sex, who go on to develop a gender identity different to their assigned sex which continues over a period of several months or years into puberty tanner stage 2 will be diagnosed with the condition gender incongruence.
Even though gender diversity has been documented across cultures and recorded throughout history it is still not easy for those who do not fit in with what society deems as ‘normal’. Individuals who identify with a gender different from their own sex can decide to change their gender expression to match the gender they identify with, either superficially with hair styles, behaviours, and clothing choices, or more permanently with hormone therapy or surgery.
For those teens that question their sexual orientation, Sexual Identity or Gender Identity it could lead to coming out to family and friends which in turn could result in acceptance, celebration, or rejection, feelings of isolation, and depression
According to researchers, sexual orientation, and sexual identity is influenced by biological, genetic, or hormonal factors during critical stages of development. From a social and cultural context how an individual expresses his or her sexual orientation or gender identity is associated with the type of environment he or she was raised in, which would not only take into account social and cultural features but also religious and political elements as well.
Psychiatrist and psychologists informed through research found that those who wished to alter a person’s sexual identity, sexuality or gender identity, using psychological techniques failed. This is because the core identity of an individual cannot be altered.
The psychiatrist and psychologists agreed that homosexuality was a natural part of an individual’s development and that conversion therapy should be banned
Psychiatrist and psychologists also agreed that sexual identity and gender identity were a natural part of an individual’s development and that conversion therapy should be banned.
Research has found that the most successful treatment to improve outcomes for those diagnosed with gender incongruence (Gender Dysphoria) was for them to be accepted by society as the sex appropriate for their gender identity.
I agree with those who wish to legislate to ban conversion therapy for homosexuality and gender identity.