Kettlepotblackagain
I'm campaigning f to ensure that protections in place for women are upheld. Im campaigning to ensure that predatory males are not able to get even easier access to women.
Then you are wasting your time and energy, by campaigning to protect something that is not under threat!
The focus, hard as this might be to believe, is not trans people.
If only that were true. You and others are mounting a very active campaign to remove existing rights from trans people. If you stopped doing so, then this whole fabricated furore would stop, almost overnight. But that would put an end to all those newspaper columns and chat show invites that provide so much income and personal fame for the privileged few who are spearheading the anti-trans movement.
A significant part of me is very uncomfortable by the added layer to this that some trans people rifle through toilet bins for used tampons, that go to smear tests to see if the nurse thinks their surgical vagina is 'real', that chats on Internet forums about how they went in changing rooms and 'passed'.
And a significant part of me is very uncomfortable that you actually believe this tosh!
You might also want to target the 'figureheads' of your campaigns. The ones that present hyper-sexualised images of themselves and think that being a women is all about dresses and hair and make up. Their desperation for validation is palpable.
I have no idea who you are talking about. I don't know who our "figureheads" are supposed to be, or what "campaigns" you are talking about. I've seen the occasional transperson allowed onto TV programmes or the papers in order to provide some semblance of "balance". And most of those who do get these rare opportunities take much the same care over their presentation as any other woman — i.e. the amount of effort (and success) varies , from person to person.
If there had been one jot of consideration for the needs and fears of women by your 'community' then we must be able to actually have a discussion. But everything is dismissed and trivialised to suit your agenda time and time again so no, no negotiation.
I, and everyone else that I know of who has got involved in this, started off by thinking "maybe there are some real concerns here, and I need for find out more. Gradually, my stance has changed. I see no real needs or fears — I just see fake fears, endlessly repeated, and all reassurances rejected — usually accompanied by torrents of abuse!
I feel very sorry for women and girls who feel frightened by the present situation. But their fears have nothing to do with trans people, and we candy nothing to assuage them. The only people who can do that are the people who set up these bogeymen in the first place — the anti-trans cult leaders. And I'm afraid that at the moment, they are making too much personal currency out of the anti-trans movement to want to pull the plug on it.