The basis of what Magdalen was pointing out was fantastic and people like Ash should really have a listen to the key message she was getting across - the whole ‘what did you do to counter the sexism’
Ash has privilege. No doubt they're vulnerable on some level but 500k followers puts you at an advantage in society. And yet still, when coming up against sexism, instead of doing any real good and tackling that (difficult to do, I appreciate), Ash has taken the discrimination and looked inward rather than out. They are literally subsuming a societal problem into a personal issue of being trans/different. It's the ultimate female submissive act. 'I am wrong' rather than 'society is wrong.'
I think sometimes the narcissism runs so strong in these people, you need someone to mock what they're saying and point out how silly it all is. Ash is so very self-obsessed and ultimately is doing harm. They will have lots of vulnerable followers. I get why people feel for Ash. It's very hard not to. Ash seems like they need a lot of help and guidance. But you also need to keep in mind how many people they will be influencing negatively.