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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Girlguiding - an update

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AgnesBadenPowell · 19/05/2018 21:23

Firstly, apologies for being offline for a while. It's been a busy few weeks, I went on holiday and started a new job. But back on it now!

You'll know that an article was published in the Sunday Times in March and a couple of weeks later the open letter went in: the final tally was 927 signatures (some of these collected after publication).

Since then I met the CEO, deputy CEO and chief guide. Prior to that, I was warned in emails to use the internal procedures for complaints and to not make things public (I did, and was ignored). I was also "reminded" of the social media policy and told that the campaign would not change the trans policy.

It's probably not appropriate to share my full notes from that meeting here. But I will say that Girlguiding was defensive and prickly. The fact that I have publicly discussed the trans policy on social media in particular irritated Julie Bentley (CEO). I don't know why; the policy is a public document available on the website.

Girlguiding stressed to me that the legal advice they received confirmed that they HAVE to treat trans members (including those who self identify, not just with a GRC) as the opposite sex) as the gender they identify as.

We did agree that in the absence of a test case, there is no legal precedent. It was left that we would await the updated EHRC guidance expected next month before any review is conducted (if they chose to review it).

We did discuss the inconsistencies that the trans policy brings about, eg GG has strict rules that accompanying male children on leaders must have separate sleeping and washing facilities. Even boys as young as 4. But if that boy identified as a girl, then no such rules apply, despite there being no physical, material difference between the two groups of males. Girlguiding referred back to their legal advice that have to treat trans members as the gender they identify as. This includes males who identify as females providing personal care to girls on residentials, a role which is strictly for female leaders only according to GG's safeguarding policy.

We also discussed gender non confirming girls. There was an agreement that the language in the policy was rather clinical, and it could be interpreted as a strict instruction for a GNC girl to be removed from their unit. It was agreed that the policy language would be reviewed. This is particularly important as most trans issues within GG are, as you might expect, around girls who are transitioning.

One of the key issues for me is that girlguiding now offers single gender but mixed sex accommodation. I accept that the number of trans girls joining guides will be small compared to our overall membership - but it would only take one incident to cause huge harm to the children involved, their families and girlguiding. I suggested that GG might want to make the single gender / mixed sex aspect clearer, perhaps by adapting the standard consent form to advise parents that we don't guarantee single sex accommodation. Yet again, I was accused of wanting "out" individuals. That is not my intention at all.

I've heard nothing from girlguiding since. I will be following up on the action points. We will have a new CEO in June and updated EHRC guidance which will hopefully give all children equal rights to bodily privacy and autonomy, not just the trans kids.

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MsBeee · 07/09/2018 19:09

I"m so angry at this. Girls need privacy.

CertainHalfDesertedStreets · 07/09/2018 19:11

It's one thing to know something. It's another to have it in writing from the EHRC Grin

And that's unequivocal I would say. They can choose to exclude, either from the organisation or from accommodation.

I love that we can invoke Agnes too Grin

Datun · 07/09/2018 19:21

It's such a piece of piss. All they have to do is write that into their effing policy. That's it.

They could soooo easily have been neutral about all this.

Why weren't they? Why did they double down on no, no, no?

OldCrone · 07/09/2018 19:26

I wonder if they’ve been advised by lawyers or just some lobby group like Allsorts.

Gendered Intelligence according to this page

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 19:27

Yep. The EHRC is demonstrating exactly how this could have been handled.

Be mindful of the risks of sex discrimination when implementing a trans inclusive policy.

Trans inclusive policies are ok so long as they are consistent with the rights of others.

In each particular scenario, the rights of ALL children must be considered.

AgnesBadenPowell · 07/09/2018 19:28

@LemonJello you invoked me?! Grin

Thanks very much for alerting me to this. Interestingly, I'm aware of some similar correspondence from the EHRC which wasn't quite the same as this. I need to do a proper comparison which I can't right now.

This is what I, Fair play for women, and countless others have been saying all along. There is a legal right to enforce same sex accommodation and a trans girl is not a girl in law.

While I have no wish to cause distress to an already distressed young person, I'm not prepared to throw other girls under the bus. It's not fair.

Lemon, did you send GGHQ the response from EHRC?

I've got loads of letter writing to do this weekend. I'm sure you all know that Gendered Intelligence advises GG on trans policy (they are referred to and linked all over the GG website) and its GI's CEO (Jay Stewart) who advises the prison service on trans policy - the same policy that put a male rapist on remand into a women's prison, where he admitted to carrying out four sexual assaults. Gendered Intelligence is not a fit and proper organisation to be advising on safeguarding issues.

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LemonJello · 07/09/2018 19:32

Sorry for invoking you Agnes! 🙈

I have not sent this to GG yet because after 3 emails they told me they would not be responding to me any more Hmm so I imagine they will just ignore me Sad

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 19:32

It is so great to hear you are on the case with this Smile

tiredandweary · 07/09/2018 19:34

Well done LemonJello.
That's really important and a classic example of how trans organisations are advising about matters way outside their expertise (no doubt deliberately). Now to get them to back off gaslighting schools into suspending safeguarding procedures for trans identified children, promoting parental alienation and insisting on mixed sex toilets, showers and changing rooms.

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 19:35

On it Wink

AgnesBadenPowell · 07/09/2018 19:35

Don't apologise, I'm glad you did! Just an interesting phrase - like summoning some sort of Girlguiding spirit Grin

This is the problem, not engaging. You are not the only one by any means. Fortunately, I can be persistent. We can't just let this go.

Can you share the EHRC response with a guider who could take it up with GG? I'd be happy to, although was the EHRC replied marked confidential?

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InflagranteDelicto · 07/09/2018 19:40

I have to go out, so will read later. Thank you, Lemonjello for contacting echr

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 19:41

No it wasn’t marked confidential.

I’d be happy to share it with you Agnes if you want to PM me an email address?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 07/09/2018 19:46

Women like you give me hope, AgnesBadenPowell. Your Guides are lucky to have you. Star

Datun · 07/09/2018 19:56

I've got loads of letter writing to do this weekend. I'm sure you all know that Gendered Intelligence advises GG on trans policy (they are referred to and linked all over the GG website) and its GI's CEO (Jay Stewart) who advises the prison service on trans policy - the same policy that put a male rapist on remand into a women's prison, where he admitted to carrying out four sexual assaults. Gendered Intelligence is not a fit and proper organisation to be advising on safeguarding issues.

He was also behind the science museum's unscientific and Mediaeval do you have a girl brain, or boy brain installation.

Which the museum removed after outrage from parents.

Datun · 07/09/2018 19:58

LemonJello

Bloody well done.

And still she persisted

SturdyEarmuffs · 07/09/2018 20:01

I'll be using all this to frame my discussion with my DDS guide captain when she starts back in a few weeks. Thanks to all the great work you've done, lemon & Agnes, I feel a lot more confident in the arguments so huge thanks from me 🙏

Mamaryllis · 07/09/2018 20:08

Dang. Lemon are you active on Twitter?
I am heartened. A wee kindling of hope that the EHRC is starting to see sense.

BoreOfWhabylon · 07/09/2018 20:09

You might want to draw this to the attention of James Kirkup on Twitter. His latest piece in The Spectator has a swipe at Gendered Intelligence and its influence on policy. He also mentions the Guides.

Can't link at the moment but there's another thread in FWR about it.

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 20:12

Thank you for the kind words Smile

No, I’m not on Twitter. It’s scary out there!

LemonJello · 07/09/2018 20:13

If Agnes thinks it’s a good idea maybe someone could alert James?

SwiftNC · 07/09/2018 21:10

Looks like it's been flagged to James Kirkup, lemonjello

LemonJello · 08/09/2018 08:42

👍

MipMipMip · 08/09/2018 09:23

Well done Lemon! Great work.

Agnes in the interest of not getting deleted by MNHQ, I'm clarifying something you wrote. The convicted rapist who was put in the chicken coop women's prision admired to two of the four assaults . The other two he didn't but they are to lay on his file. Assaults to only two trapped women instead of four sounds so much better.

ImPreCis · 08/09/2018 09:30

SOrry for a slight derail here.

Where is the divine Ms Bentley going to when she leaves GG next year, having decided that her work there is done? What other affiliations does she have?

It would be interesting to keep an eye on her progress maybe.

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