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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans women

411 replies

Jamiem80 · 19/05/2018 01:07

Probably going to get shot down massively here but a simple question clearly there is a lot of hate for men wanting to be women, but nothing about women becoming men. Do you also frown upon this or is it ok and for what reason?

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Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 12:09

No not in this country for the last one.

Strange that you chose to say that then given that you know it isn't true, isn't it?

ReluctantCamper · 20/05/2018 12:27

are you really saying that black people aren't best placed to understand the reasons behind, and therefore campaign for, an end to racism?

seems a little paternalistic, no?

ReluctantCamper · 20/05/2018 12:27

I'm not saying others can't join in. but surely the most compelling voice against oppression comes from the oppressed?

SupermatchGame · 20/05/2018 12:54

Strange that you chose to say that then given that you know it isn't true, isn't it?

No it's not strange it's inclusive given that there are US members and people from other countries where trans murder rates are higher.

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 20/05/2018 12:56

Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them

I really don't understand how super could miss the point of that quote so spectacularly

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 20/05/2018 12:58

They're a sheltered breed aren't they. MPs tend not to think of anything unless they've been affected by it.

Although I certainly couldn't disagree with this

spontaneousgiventime · 20/05/2018 12:58

Rufustheyawningreindeer Because it fits Super agenda to miss the point?

SupermatchGame · 20/05/2018 12:59

are you really saying that black people aren't best placed to understand the reasons behind, and therefore campaign for, an end to racism?
seems a little paternalistic, no?

No. I think if you want to understand the reasons behind racism then you'll only ever get part of the picture if you only speak to black people. I'm saying it isn't just their responsibility to do something about it.

Racism is society's problem. As is violence.

Bowlofbabelfish · 20/05/2018 13:05

Trans women are also at risk of sexual assault, violence and homicide from dating men

Men seem to be a risk to everyone, don’t they? but I think there have been eight murders of trans women in the last decade. I believe only two of those were directly attributed to the person in question being trans. Obviously that's eight too many, any killing is a terrible thing.
At the same time, it makes being a trans woman considerably safer than being a woman in the UK by any measure you want to use. Two women a week are killed in intimate partner/family killings, effectively for being female.

Worth also pointing out that none of these transwomen were killed by feminists. Feminists in general tend to have an opinion, rather than engage in violence. The current TRA lobby seems to see opinions as violence, which again is interesting. And disturbing.

merrymouse · 20/05/2018 13:17

but male violence affects everyone and therefore is everyone's business.

You are confusing recognising the problem:

"violence and discrimination are bad"

with taking practical steps to solve the problem.

Lack of accessibility means people with a disability suffer discrimination. Many people suffer from discrimination. Only some people can access the Blue Badge parking scheme.

Theoretically we know that access to university is equal to all, but we also know that there are structural reasons why people on low incomes find it more difficult.

You cannot solve equality problems if you pretend that everybody has the same needs and starts from the same position.

merrymouse · 20/05/2018 13:42

Sometimes two groups of different people share a service without problem (Cyclists and buses share bus lanes), and sometimes it causes conflict, e.g. when somebody in a wheelchair can't get on the bus because somebody hasn't folded a pushchair.

If you don't recognise that different groups have different and sometimes conflicting needs it's impossible to create provision or take steps to prevent discrimination.

merrymouse · 20/05/2018 13:44

And while bus lanes are better than nothing, it's much safer if cyclists have their own cycle lanes.

Picassospaintbrush · 20/05/2018 14:06

@supermatchgame

Did you read what Sophia had to say about the US murder rate?

dailycaller.com/2018/05/12/linguistic-minefield-of-politically-correct-tranny/

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 14:19

No it's not strange it's inclusive given that there are US members and people from other countries where trans murder rates are higher.

There are reasons why those rates are higher. Most people don't tend to call prostitution "dating". And prostitution carries a much higher murder rate both for trans identified males and women.

merrymouse · 20/05/2018 14:25

Apart from anything else, availability of guns makes it very difficult to include US statistics in a discussion about murder in the U.K.

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 14:27

And Brazil, which has the highest level of trans murder.

Pratchet · 20/05/2018 14:35

High trans murder, suicide and abuse rates are linked to high trans prostitution rates. So you would need to compare those with the murder, suicide and abuse rates of women in prostitution, not with the murder, suicide and abuse rates of all women.

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 14:42

Also, trans identified male murder rates need to be compared against other male murder rates. Male people are both murder victims and murderers at a higher rate.

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 14:43

You will find that a male cuts the risk of being murdered by transitioning.

Pratchet · 20/05/2018 14:45

That is true. Not only to below that of other men, but below that if women and therefore below the average.

merrymouse · 20/05/2018 14:51

But again, all murder is tragic and if you want to reduce murder rates, you have to look at the specific circumstances in which murders occur.

You can’t just lump them all together to prove a point and say ‘murder is bad’.

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 14:55

Agree.

Pratchet · 20/05/2018 15:04

Yes: it's thoroughly unpleasant to have to engage in a 'our murder rate is higher than yours' conversation. Unfortunately transactivists have chosen this style of argument in pursuit of maximum victimhood. We allow the lie to stand, or we challenge it.

Pratchet · 20/05/2018 15:08

Where is Datun, by the way

Ereshkigal · 20/05/2018 15:15

I've seen her posting earlier today.