I agree that MN represents a wide range of views, including mine that for a teenaged young adult with a hard on and no pants under a short skirt with a history of obviously sexual and provocative posing to be held up as someone who should be in girls' changing rooms and then being called a 'child' and someone feminists should not be talking about is bonkers.
If this isn't about women and girls' rights what is? Being silent about issues that aren't pretty or nice is unfortunately something that has to be done, to prevent this kind of sexual dominance display being normalised and inflicted on teenaged girls. And incidentally severely damaging the image and sympathy for teenagers with gender dysphoria. To me, staying silent about that and looking the other way is abhorrent.
YMMV. The thing is, here we talk about it. We exchange the views, we explain different POVs. Without calling each other names, doxxing each other, thumping each other or making violent threats, or announcing that the other person is vile and subhuman for not agreeing.