On this question of 'support' if you are trans.
Anyone who is of the belief that the 'inner them' is different from their physical body, whose biological reality must be apparent to them every day, and unless they are in denial as it is the source of their dysphoria in the first place, has to need two main 'supports'.
Medical, to check if there might not be something wrong with their body to cause them to feel as they do.
Psychological, to assess whether they have any reason to have developed a false image of themselves as opposite to their biology.
They might not think either of these apply, but if they have any kind of grasp on reality it has to be apparent that given the unusualness of what they feel these things need to at least be eliminated first.
As a transsexual that is exactly why you seek out such support as early as possible and do whatever it takes to resolve whatever emerges.
Yet this is also the very support most trans people now want to eliminate so they can legally alter gender without having any medical or psychological assessment first. Because it is regarded as self expression of their gender identity.
But if you feel sure you must 'transition', as I did as a transsexual, then the real support beyond assessment that you really need is from your family and friends to understand and the ongoing care of doctors to assure you are kept healthy and psychologically stable. As changing is a big deal, not a walk in the park, and if you think it is then you need that support more than ever.
The whole point surely is just to BE yourself. Which means that you have to put back into society what up until then you have likely been taking out in NHS funds, or benefits whilst you start transition and so on.
You have achieved the equilibrium that you looked for and the onus now is on you to make the most of it an say thank you by what you do.
That means turning away from an introspectiveness that being trans inevitably brings to starting to be a member of a wider society and community which brings with it added responsibilities.
Some of which are to care what other people think, give and do not always expect to take, appreciate that not everybody will agree with you or automatically defer to your status as to who you are.
The worst thing you can do is enter victim mode mentality and look for and expect the world to care solely about you, or treat you as a special case.
Because if you expect bad things to happen to you, they will.
If you look for anger or confusion, you will find it.
But if you relish the good things about the life you strove to achieve and seek to be the best person that you can - guess what - you will find that too.
You went through this to NOT be a 'special case' any more. You sought to normalise your existence.
You should try being normal and inclusive and caring - not exclusive and demanding - because that will only make everyone else consider you anything but normal.
And if you transitioned in order to be abnormal and extraordinary instead of just to live as who you feel that you are - then you really needed to see those doctors and psychiatrists in the first place who you seem to want to exclude from coming anywhere near.