Hi folks - a reminder about our rules, as we've had lots of reports about this thread.
We allow the debate about issues relating to transgender to take place on Mumsnet to the degree to which folks stick within our Talk Guidelines. This means that we will delete posts that we feel are inflammatory, provocative, amount to goady fuckery or are just plain uncivil or unkind.
We appreciate that there are discussions to be had about biology and the nature of what it is to be a woman, and to that end we allow posts which align with scientific orthodoxy and which are in the spirit of genuine, civil debate. But we do think that repeatedly referring to someone by a pronoun they've rejected is both goady and inflammatory. We're going to go back now and delete those posts - it will leave big holes, which is a pain for everyone.
Please do bear this in mind from now on - we don't want to have to take further action but if we must, we must.
Cheers
MNHQ