I'm collecting phrases that help explain the issue aka peak trans a man.
Dh isn't especially interested- he's sick of labour and struggles with the other parties for other reasons. He's been tired of the guardian on and of for these reasons too; not any feminist reasins.
He's one of 3 boys and a very patriarchal family, though very kind and relaxed - mother never worked, never raised her voice etc. (In fact I'm not sure what she's actually interested in, no hobbies just loves grand children and the church).
If I discussed all this with him I do think he'd agree but not see any wider political impact till I pointed it out.
So he's simply not tuned into how life is for women. We have a boy and another on the way, so I've resolved to absolutely make sure they are aware of things as they grow up.
I also have issues about how all this (patriarchy, gender stereotypes, masculinity etc) impacts young boys as I really do think many of the issues we deal with in feminism can be tracked back to those early experiences for boys and girls.
'We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.' Gloria Steinman (and insert many more of her quotes here!)
This one is apt for me at the mo:
'The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.'