@48harv brilliant letter. Well done.
I would honestly say please do not send it to Lily Madigan. This may well put you on her hit list and as you have said you want to live as a woman and not be outed as trans she could make a lot of trouble for you and be quite a nasty person to tangle with!
Plus she will not change her mind! IMHO.
Plus the trans activists have made a lot of movements under the radar and I think it is time for us to do whatever we feel is right without giving hateful people the head up, IMHO.
@thebewilderness not sure what you are talking about. 48 is listening, learning and sharing. I think that's fab. (And writing a fucking outstanding letter!)