Sorry, the thread has got so long. I can't reply to individuals, but further up in this thread a poster did actually use life experiences such as " menustration,childbirth,etc" as being hallmarks of what it means to be a woman, and that transwomen can never experience them...but these narrow, stereotypical thoughts exclude 'cis' women anyway...if we don't menustrate or experience child birth, does that mean we aren't women either, by such definitions?
And apologies, but Facebook a hate group and a well known example of horrendous child abuse in the Reiner case, do not make discrimination on appearance or presentation ethical . I guarantee those who discriminate against transwomen have already shared facilities with them, and have not even been aware of it. That is why it is impossible to enforce ' segregated bathrooms'. Are people who don't appear to be obviously female or male to display their genitals ( genitals could show female, male or intersex, so no 'proof' there). Is there a scanner that can quickly display a person's chromosomal make up and filter them into the 'right' bathroom, for those that so firmly believe chromosomes are the be all and end all? Molecular science is still in its' infancy...genome and chromosome research into certain conditions eg Huntingtons Disease is revealing chromosomal aberrations not previously thought of...we do not know enough about chromosomes to be judge and jury on the human species...the nore we discover, we realise the less we know...easily found literature can be found at www.nature.com/subjects/chromosomes for example...
Throughout history there has been fear based discrimination...fear of differences...putting those who are different in a 'dangerous' category...it sickens me to point it out but that's how racism and apartheid developed and prevailed. Then it was homophobia. Now it's transphobia. Through it all is misogyny, so if we want equal treatment for women, that really should include all women. Women were /are seen as 'inferior/weak/pathetic/sexual objects by the worst extreme misogynists...we know what it's like to face demeaning, traumatic discrimination and bigotry...I won't do that to another person, just because it's happened to me. Bigotry towards and exclusion of any group of people is illegal and discriminatory in my country, and many other more progressive countries.
When, in some other supposedly progressive countries, women are prevented from accessing contraception, abortion, equal pay etc , the cis men in suits are much more of a threat to women than transwomen quietly trying to live their lives and occasionally going to a public bathroom.
I have looked for firm evidence of women being sexually assaulted by transwomen in public bathrooms. If anyone can provide such evidence, please share the link. As there is no such reliable evidence to be found.
Women's safety is definitely an issue. But using 'our'( I obviously include transwomen in this) safety as a vehicle for transphobia at worst, bigotry and discrimination at best, is disturbing.
In answer to the, much laboured, original question...yes I do consider transwomen as women, literally...I do not have any problem in accepting people who are different to me , in any way..I accept them as they represent, it wouldn't cross my mind not to.