There was a construction death on the new Queensferry crossing near Edinburgh, when it was being built. I cannot remember the details, but it was clearly an accident, but it was caused by the unintended and accidental consequences of the actions of other workers, who had clearly acted properly with accidental and fatal consequences . I remember thinking this was tragic for all concerned.
It seems trite to start arguing this and incidents like it are somehow women’s fault. Or that there had been inadequate thought amongst the men concerned.
In this instance, the causes were height, heavy machinery, and human error. We all make mistakes, but it is more likely to be men in the occupations which are dangerous. Trade unions fought in the 19th century to keep women out of them; after both world wars, women were sent back home. So, we need to look at why these occupations are predominantly male.
Women may be statistically safer in their retail, call centre, service industry roles, but again, why are these female jobs? They are often part-time, lower paid etc.
You could unpick all of these headline stats for a nuanced and constructive debate benefitting both sexes. Posters on here have started to do that, and it is interesting and helpful reading. The meme doesn’t do that, it has a ‘what about the menz’ tone.
What about the menz? As others have said, patriarchy hurts men too. Feminists have sons, fathers, brothers, husbands. None of us want men to be hurt, in despair, victims or perpetrators. But neither do we want ourselves to be. It is that simple.