Rapist copied scenes he'd seen in pornography

[NoLoveofMine]

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41039754

It's not designed to be realistic at all. 'Realistic' porn would be the woman getting pissed off about the fact that she is expected to suck off some random man before being penetrated having had no oral sex or manual clitoral stimulation first. 'Realistic' wouldn't involve her screaming with delight over having some bogstandard penis shoved into her various orifices. It's designed to flatter men into thinking their penises are, alternately, weapons of mass destruction or instruments capable of giving ecstatic pleasure, as opposed to the six-inch long appendages they actually are.

Lol. Don't you like sex?

Collidascope what a load of bollocks. Is it that difficult for you to accept women love sex and enjoy themselves?

This thread is about male sexual violence against women and girls in the context of another horrendous offender who committed multiple attacks including on a 14 year old girl.

Gotspoiler

I think this is where a lot of women get disillusioned about feminism.

Way to miss the point, you two.

I'm not going to engage with the porno cheerleaders because it's pointless, derailing and making me sad

Then why the link to porn in the op?

Sorry, Nolove. I've got drawn into then derailing because I'm so pissed off at the shit Coin and got are coming out with. Apologies.

Quite so Coin

Feminists like these who do a lot of winger wagging and telling women what to like and dislike and tell them they are victims all the time are not doing themselves any favours

Sorry but it's not derailing anything when the porn link is in the op. And as someone who is part of it and enjoys watching it of course I want to defend it!

I think this thread is a good example of how women's concerns get shoved under the rug.
And also how patriarchy as a whole ends up using DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender.,) in order to silence women.

Nice little tag team you have got going there Coin and Got

I really hope Coin is a troll.

I started off feeling sorry for Coin on another thread she is posting on but no longer.

If Coin is real I hope she is not passing on the toxic and dangerously deluded ideas she expressed about consent and sexual abuse on the Macron thread to her own children.

No I'm not a troll. Im a sex worker, mother and girlfriend. I also have very strong opinions on people who try to tarnish an entire industry by labelling the workers victims and the consumers deviant misogynists.

Not your fault Collidascope

It's just rather tiresome when a couple of posters come on specifically to derail a thread. Worse still when it's about male violence against women including an attack on a 14 year old girl.

I think there are multiple problems, on a whole society is going down the pan and here are some reasons why

• sex is promoted everywhere, its constant, its in the media, we are judged on how we look, how much and what type of sex were having, porn etc. sex is no longer seen as a loving respectful act but as a commodity to which some feel entitled, the media even without porn treats women as sex objects- e.g. Page 3
• breakdown of religion, whether you believe or not it used to serve as a moral compass which may have been a deterrent from violence, rape etc
• people out of employment, drinking, drugs a sense of nihilism, that means people just don't give a crap and do as they please
• weak sentencing and lack of punishment for crime. A disdain for authority in general. No deterrant.

I think society is becoming more and more selfish. We do what pleases us with little thought for others. Men who rape I believe feel entitled to seize what they desire. I don't think its misogyny alone, I think society is becoming sick.

@NoLoveofMine

"This thread is about male sexual violence against women and girls in the context of another horrendous offender who committed multiple attacks including on a 14 year old girl."

I thought the thread was about the link between porn and violence not about ALL male violence.

Many consumers of porn are also women. Do they hate other women? What about feminist porn directors?

I started off feeling sorry for Coin on another thread she is posting on but no longer.

Also please don't feel sorry for me. I'm not a victim.

CoinOperatedGurl

Gotspoiler

I think this is where a lot of women get disillusioned about feminism

On the contrary. I'm a regular professional contrarian on here about things I see as the more "Milly Tant take offence where none is intended" issues. But the serious stuff? No , very happy to support the anti-porn views on here.

I thought the thread was about the link between porn and violence not about ALL male violence.

Thank you! So did I!

The problem is systemic to society as opposed to "men"and "misogyny" as factors alone

I think society is becoming more and more selfish. We do what pleases us with little thought for others. Men who rape I believe feel entitled to seize what they desire.
I don't think its misogyny alone, I think society is becoming sick.
I do agree with this. Misogyny is a big part of it, but it's also more widespread than just violence against women - it's identity politics, and entitlement, and a lack of community responsibility.

LassWiTheDelicateAir

So you ARE anti porn.

Also please don't feel sorry for me. I'm not a victim

You were having what you thought was consensual sex with adult men when you were pre-teen. You thought it was reasonable for a 15 year old to have a sexual relationship with a 30 year old man. Keep telling yourself you were not a victim but as someone else said the level of cognitive dissonance needed to get to that belief is mind- blowing.

You clearly also have no idea what "grooming" means.

But you need not worry about anyone feeling sorry for you given your posts on this thread.

LassWiTheDelicateAir

So you ARE anti porn

Yes- why the need for shouty capitals? Why is that surprising?