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Rapist copied scenes he'd seen in pornography

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NoLoveofMine · 25/08/2017 23:16

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41039754

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AdalindSchade · 26/08/2017 13:07

CoinOperatedGurl you have landed up in hospital as a result of your 'career' and you don't see yourself as a victim? Alright Hmm

You're deluding yourself if you think being anally gang banged util you end up hospitalised isn't abuse. And the fact that you enjoy rape 'porn' is a pretty clear indication that you're not actually ok at all.

fannydaggerz · 26/08/2017 13:09

He's disgusting.

DJBaggySmalls · 26/08/2017 13:10

CoinOperatedGurl
You've already said you struggle to empathize with teenagers who are raped and that you would leave people to get on with it.

I suggest you do that. your comments border on abusive and its not doing your argument any favours.

gotspoiler · 26/08/2017 13:11

CoinOperatedGurl you have landed up in hospital as a result of your 'career' and you don't see yourself as a victim? Alright

So are underwater welders, which is arguably one of the riskiest jobs on the world, also victims?

DJBaggySmalls · 26/08/2017 13:11

AdalindSchade
Heads up; dont repeat the comments; its a fetish some people have to get them repeated with outrage.

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NoLoveofMine · 26/08/2017 13:12

I agree DJ. Same goes for that other poster who's appeared on this thread simply to promote pornography and derail.

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CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:13

I don't think I've been abusive in the slightest and that's certainly not my intention at all.

Yes I've been in hospital due to my career choices and I don't consider myself a victim. I also don't blame porn or men as it was a personal choice.

I wasn't aware this was a discussion on the women involved with this man and how they feel. I just want to address the porn link. But it seems, after further reading he wasn't just watching porn but illegal material anyway.

CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:15

And don't you expect women who may enjoy porn to take issue with the way the op is worded?

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 26/08/2017 13:17

So are underwater welders, which is arguably one of the riskiest jobs on the world, also victims?

Oh fgs you cannot seriously be comparing a dangerous but highly skilled and highly worthwhile job (a real job) with being a porn actress?

CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:18

A real job?!

So you don't think porn is a real job? Seriously?

gotspoiler · 26/08/2017 13:19

Oh fgs you cannot seriously be comparing a dangerous but highly skilled and highly worthwhile job (a real job) with being a porn actress?

So being an actress doesn't require skill? They have to make it seem as realistic as possible. Also prostitution gets compared to real jobs a lot on MN

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NoLoveofMine · 26/08/2017 13:19

More derailing on a thread about abhorrent attacks on women and girls. Quite something how little some care about male violence against women and girls.

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CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:21

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gotspoiler · 26/08/2017 13:21

Yes porn is a real job. Look up Mercedes Carrera as an example

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NoLoveofMine · 26/08/2017 13:21

You don't think women and girls being raped and murdered by men and boys is a big problem so I think that says it all.

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CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:23

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DJBaggySmalls · 26/08/2017 13:24

3 fetish models have committed suicde in the last 3 months. Prostitutes and sex workers have high rates for PTSD & violent assault, no entrance exam is required to weed out vulnerable people such as abuse survivors or women who are being groomed or coerced.

On the other hand, only a fraction of people pass all the training to be underwater deep sea welders. The two cont compare in the slightest.

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NoLoveofMine · 26/08/2017 13:24

How wonderful for you. No point engaging.

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CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:25

To weed out abuse survivors? Do you think that they shouldn't be working in the sex industry just because they have been abused?

Scrumplestiltskin · 26/08/2017 13:25

Right, I see...
So a poster who was sexually abused as a child, and groomed and raped by adult men from a prepubescent age, went into pornography and sex work, and was raped again as an adult, thinks they're not a victim.
Well, Coin, all I can say is that if you're not a troll, I'm very sorry that your abusive sexual experiences (aka rapes,) have left your understanding of sexuality so unhealthily, harmfully warped.
I fail to see why you're on this thread though. It seems pointless all around.

gotspoiler · 26/08/2017 13:26

You don't think women and girls being raped and murdered by men and boys is a big problem so I think that says it all

Do you truly care? read this

www.insightcrime.org/news-analysis/why-does-latin-america-have-the-world-s-highest-female-murder-rates

What are you doing to help these people? Probably sitting there behind your laptop drinking a skinny latte

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 26/08/2017 13:27

So you don't think porn is a real job? Seriously?

Nope. And before you ask being a prostitute is not either. I am not going to dignify sexual exploitation by going along with the delusion that it is a job.

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NoLoveofMine · 26/08/2017 13:28

Do I truly care about women and girls being raped and murdered by men and boys? You're an abhorrent individual.

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Collidascope · 26/08/2017 13:28

So being an actress doesn't require skill? They have to make it seem as realistic as possible.

It's not designed to be realistic at all. 'Realistic' porn would be the woman getting pissed off about the fact that she is expected to suck off some random man before being penetrated having had no oral sex or manual clitoral stimulation first. 'Realistic' wouldn't involve her screaming with delight over having some bogstandard penis shoved into her various orifices. It's designed to flatter men into thinking their penises are, alternately, weapons of mass destruction or instruments capable of giving ecstatic pleasure, as opposed to the six-inch long appendages they actually are.

CoinOperatedGurl · 26/08/2017 13:30

I'm on this post because I took issue with the link with porn. But as I said it turns out he was viewing illegal material anyway.