Rapist copied scenes he'd seen in pornography

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www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41039754

You clearly think it is perfectly ok for adult men to have sexual relations with young girls prior to the age of consent.

The age of consent is an arbitrary law.

In Germany it's 14, France and Poland 15 and UK 16. There aren't that many cultural differences between these countries yet the ages differ by up to two years.

I was pubescent at 9. Would it therefore have been ok for me to have a sexual relationship with a man in his 20s aged 11?

@CoinOperatedGurl I just hope that when reality comes crashing down on you,you'll find the help and support you'll need.

My eldest childs father met me when I was 15 and h was in his 30s. It was a sexual relationship. I was sexually active with older men since before my teens so I was very experienced etc. I wasn't child like.

I'm not sorry it wasn't as if it was non-consensual (not in the legal sense as I'm now aware the legally I couldn't consent).

I don't think it's left a mark on me apart from teaching me from a very young age how men work

The sex I had from 12-16 was nothing like the abuse I suffered as an adult and to call it such is imo offensive to those who were abused as children. I don't class abuse as fun and enjoyable

This probably breaches guidelines to quote you from another thread but I'm past caring. This is what you said on the Macron thread. You think adults having sex with pre-teens is not abuse if the children think it is fun and enjoyable.

The father of your first child is a predatory paedophile. I don't care if you think that is the wrong word- you were amongst the apologists on that thread dancing on a pin head about the correct term for adults who have sex with children. I'm in this case happy to stick with the dictionary definition of sexually attracted to children.

Coin, you accused me of not liking sex because I don't like the kind of "it's all about the man's pleasure" sex that occurs in porn. Now you say what Adam Johnson said about that 15 year old is just "how guys talk about girls".
If you're genuinely a mother, I can't stand to think what type of messages and low standards you're passing on to your children.

I feel desperately sorry for coin now. What chance did she ever have if she was having sex with older men since before her teens. I'm sorry you were abused coin. I think you might be in denial and you should seek counselling.

Agree with alittle

coin

I know you seem quite content on here but do you have a good support network now? Partners and freinds who like and respect you

I am not referring to your past so i dont need to know if your first partner did, just what is happening now

Well not desperately sorry, alittle is obviously a nicer person than me

Studies showing the negative effects of porn on its viewers.

So I have a question to the cheerleaders for porn as harmless fun, (got and missy I think, if you're still here?).

Do you read coin"s account of her childhood, and the injuries she's suffered while making porn, and still conclude that it's all tickety boo, harmless fun, all freely chosen and so above criticism? And can't be linked to any other violence, either to groom women into performing in it, or allowing violent men to think that their horrible rape fantasies are legitmate and normal, and that women want them to be acted out on them?

Do you?

Do you really?

coin, I want to say firstly that I hope to god that what you've written on here isn't true. And if it is, I am so deeply, deeply sorry for the child that you were who was so badly let down and exploited by the adults around her. Like Rufus said, I hope you have some better people in your life now.

coin, I want to say firstly that I hope to god that what you've written on here isn't true. And if it is, I am so deeply, deeply sorry for the child that you were who was so badly let down and exploited by the adults around her

Unlike some of you I'm not a nice person. Coin is a grown-up. Her posts are wilfully ignoring anything and everything said to her.

She is free to mess up her own life if she wants but I hope she is not passing her awful attitudes on to her children; or even worse would think it is fine if her children were also to have fun and enjoyable sex with adults.

Don't disagree with you at all lass

I'm just hoping that the children have other influences with a good support network

I'm afraid Coin's posts and attitude just doesn't ring true to me. I can't believe a parent - even one who has a history of abuse themselves would defend adults who gave sex with underage children. On a parenting forum, no less.
Yeah right. Must think we were all born yesterday.

Have sex, not gave.

Quite an in depth backstory you have there CoinOperatedGurl and most of it doesn't ring true. But if you get your kicks from contradicting feminists on the internet knock yourself out.

So you don't believe me. Ok. That just reinforces my idea of a movement which I feel totally excluded from. I've had run ins with feminists on other forms of social media and in real life. It's supposed to be about women yet as a woman I feel more accepted by men, which although is sad is something I've just come to accept now.

No I don't believe anything you have written. Not one word.

I don't get my kicks from this no but I thought maybe I was wrong by judging all feminists the same. Seems I was right.

Couldn't careless if you accept my kind of feminism.

I don't accept any kind of feminism tbh.

That's the only truthful words you've written so far.

Considering we're all anon on here none of us may be telling the truth. Thank god I'm not after any kind of support from my fellow "sisters" eh?!

#not all men

but

#yesallwomen