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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Why do so many men turn bad...?

418 replies

Destinysdaughter · 27/01/2017 18:44

Was just thinking about this, May be simplistic but was wondering why so many men end up being rapists, paedophiles, DV abusers, stalkers etc?

Is it something in their family background, being a victim of abuse themselves, conditioning, or something else?

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Notwhatiexpected · 07/02/2017 18:53

Are the dinner ladies still cooking? Who is cooking the dinner? and are there adequate health and safety systems to stop the semen getting in the soup?

venusinscorpio · 07/02/2017 18:55

Do you think people should be able to sell their own organs? Or do you see any problem with that?

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 19:00

Nots
"Intimate massages....genital pleasure the same as a back rub etc.

Just an opinion, but you may have boundary (or lack of) issues. "

Not the same at all never said they were but the question is if one person wants to do it to another person for money why is it consensual if doesn't impinge on genitals ( and presumably other erogenous areas) but non-consesual if it does?

"But I am bored of this now, you are correct too circular and a lack of credibility.

Please please go back to describing Utopia, what are the sexy lady uniforms like? Will men's urges be fully satisfied? Describe to us how we will manage the domestic setup, will men have many happy wives and lovers? What about the non alphas? Can we boost their hormones?"

Never mentioned utopia or sexy uniforms they were all the reserve of lazy replies who couldn't argue the facts.
No mens urges won't be fully satisfied no wives and lovers may not be happy. But sex will move one level down in importance and be one less thing that only one sex controlls and therefore it will increase equality!

venusinscorpio · 07/02/2017 19:01

Oh, here we have it. Women "control" sex and it's all so unfair for men!

AssassinatedBeauty · 07/02/2017 19:01

It would in no way increase equality and it would not be a world I'd want to live in or raise my sons in.

venusinscorpio · 07/02/2017 19:01

When men rape are they just "taking back control"?

RebelRogue · 07/02/2017 19:04

Which is the sex that "controls" sex?

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 19:05

Chinnor don't kid yourself he's not born that way!! Your on the wrong forum for that kind of view! - He's socially conditioned to be evil! By patriarchy!

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 19:07

Venus how can you equate selling a kidney with manipulating someones genitals to give them an orgasm?

Notwhatiexpected · 07/02/2017 19:13

Reading what you say and not agreeing with you isn't lazy. Gently mocking your suggestions was an attempt to make you think about them. I wasn't certain that a lot if thought had gone into them.

It is interesting that being a woman, that was my approach. What with my being a woman, I am conditioned to be kind to men despite when their opinions offend me. Perhaps it is my hormones

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 19:22

Sorry Nots . It just seemed a lazy response at first glance. I'm all for gently mocking if it makes you think. But all it made me think was that the point was being avoided by employing reducto ad absurdum. In my experience once the mocking starts it all gets a bit tedious and pointless and not enjoyable. I don't like aggressive confrontation maybe that's my hormones too!

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 19:25

....ps Being kind is in my opinion the strongest quality anyone can posses. Male or female.

MercyMyJewels · 07/02/2017 19:27

OK haven't RTFT; just the last few posts.

Jordan Petersen, a Canadian Professor known recently for being a freedom of speech advocate, and in no way inclined to support feminists, made a comment that men have a problem with women because "women can reject them"

I had not considered it before. It was an eye opener

HelenDenver · 07/02/2017 19:36

SGM BUTTONS, PEOPLE!!!

This is an emergency!

Datun · 07/02/2017 19:40

Helen

Agreed.

Shut down! Shut down! Klaxon, klaxon.

Everyone ! Please don your MRA jackets and file out quietly.

AssassinatedBeauty · 07/02/2017 19:41

Agreed here too.

RebelRogue · 07/02/2017 19:41

Helen what's SGM.?

HelenDenver · 07/02/2017 19:42

An SGM button is a (virtual) Hide Poster button. Useful to deploy when the derail is so far off track, that the track is a mere dot in the distance.

HelenDenver · 07/02/2017 19:43

(Named after StewieGriffinsMom, who thought of it)

Datun · 07/02/2017 19:43

helen

What does it actually stand for ?

Datun · 07/02/2017 19:44

X post. Ahhhh.

RebelRogue · 07/02/2017 19:54

Ahh thank you.

MercyMyJewels · 07/02/2017 19:57

I thought it was me!

HelenDenver · 07/02/2017 20:02

Not you, Mercy, my friend!

Jmslvlc990 · 07/02/2017 20:11

Mercy - Totally agree with the JP comment

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