I've heard this fantasy girlhood bollocks before. My mum taught me zip about feminine practices, no make up, hair, fashion advice. No conversations about boys, or shaving my legs or contraception. She did show me how to use Sanpro but that was it. I worked some of it out for myself some of it I still have no clue about and muddled (incompetently) along into womanhood. I can't imagine I'm alone in this.
Not only that but I find the notion that my role as a mother to my daughter and the wisdom I have to offer whilst "sitting round the fire"is defined and reduced to make up tips, kind of insulting.
Not that women can't teach their daughters femininity, I would help my daughter if she asked, I just don't see it as as important as teaching her about bodily autonomy, or financial independence and management, or how to take care of her emotional well being and not to become a people pleaser nor a selfish arse.