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Do women use certain terms to 'shame' certain types of men?

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Enzouk · 14/10/2016 23:58

Just wondering about female perspectives on this. I increasingly hear women calling guys 'creepy' as a shaming tactic..generally I think that the women doing so do it only if they don't find the man attractive. Where as they will pander to a guy who is physically attractive to thrm they will hate on a guy who acts the exact same way who physically is not attractive to them. I have seen women do it in front of groups of friends in a sort of 'lets put this guy in his place' way. Thoughts? And what do you think of women who do this?

Also, i suppose on similar lines...are women more shallow than men with regards to physical attraction?

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QueenSpartacusOfTheAndals · 16/10/2016 15:48

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Marbleheadjohnson · 16/10/2016 15:48

Haha you clearly haven't understood a word anyone has said.

ageingrunner · 16/10/2016 15:50

Ha I missed that we were chastised by the nice man for being foul mouthed. Fuck off is the only possible response

user1476625951 · 16/10/2016 15:51

BeyondReasonablyDoubts - No, UK.

And I can't imagine that I will be posting much longer for the lady who already told me to F of...if only purely because I will be banned again very shortly for merely writing a post which shouldn't cause offence to anyone apart from those who are looking for it.

JenLindleyShitMom · 16/10/2016 15:52

Oh seriously. HQ zap this thread and send this loser to the far side of fuck.

Enzo/creepy guy it's against talk guidelines to post as a previously banned poster so off you fuck mate.

SuramarMom · 16/10/2016 15:52

Ah diddums.

So what? We should fuck people we aren't interested in just coz their ikkle feelings might get hurt? Be polite to them even if they are invading our space, unwelcome and probably the fifth guy to do just that in the space of an hour. Think of our sons and brothers!

NO ONE is entitled to sex or time from anyone.

What exactly do you want to happen here?

Women HAVE to talk or be polite to any man who comes up to them? Why?

ageingrunner · 16/10/2016 15:52

Tbh it is funny, but also not funny. What this man is clearly saying is that he's going to continue to harass women, continue to not listen when they tell him it's not welcome and why, and continue to judge them as being shallow if they don't fancy him. It's a bit...creepy if I'm honest 😳

user1476625951 · 16/10/2016 15:54

QueenSpartacusOfTheAndals - well, sounds like you are one of those who let your own gender down. Whether you care to listen to it, admit it or whatever.

Marbleheadjohnson · 16/10/2016 15:54

No ageing. He has a girlfriend. He's posting this altruistically on behalf of all those men who are suicidal because women aren't shagging them, which he claims is most depressed and suicidal men. FACT.

BeyondReasonablyDoubts · 16/10/2016 15:55

Umm "deliberately inflammatory behaviour" is against talk guidelines.

Posting in feminism that women are not nice enough to creepy men comes under deliberately inflammatory behaviour.

Hth :)

(Oh and swearing is allowed here, because we are not fucking twee)

SuramarMom · 16/10/2016 15:55

If it consoles anyone at least we all know, with that attitude and unwillingness to listen, op ain't getting anything but a 'fuck of creep' for a loooooong time Grin

Marbleheadjohnson · 16/10/2016 15:55

You're letting your gender down, user. Trust me. I have two brothers and many male friends. They would all disagree with you. You'd probably listen to them because they are blokes.

user1476625951 · 16/10/2016 15:56

ageinrunner - If you think I am clearly said that then you can't read and let your own bias cloud your judgement. i couldn't be much clearer in that post. Won't be posting for a while today so I'll let the apparently less educated and more angry throw insults without reading what I said and maybe others will be able to read my post properly.

BeyondReasonablyDoubts · 16/10/2016 15:56

Ps, it's sex. We are "letting our sex down"

ageingrunner · 16/10/2016 15:56

Oh RIGHT Marble Silly female-brained me. What a nice man!

BeyondReasonablyDoubts · 16/10/2016 15:57

Or s*x, in the land of those who can't bring themselves to type naughty words

ageingrunner · 16/10/2016 15:58

No youre right op, you couldn't have been any clearer. Are you going to fuck off then or what?

Marbleheadjohnson · 16/10/2016 15:58
Grin

It's odd that you think this is anger, OP. I for one have been pissing myself laughing at this thread.

ageingrunner · 16/10/2016 16:00

Grin Same here

BeyondReasonablyDoubts · 16/10/2016 16:03

🍿

RebelRogue · 16/10/2016 16:04

I am rude to everyone male and female. I don't like most people,and I don't owe anyone shit!!! Is that ok?

innocentinfamy · 16/10/2016 16:04

Haven't rtft but Dove you've got it spot on Star

SuramarMom · 16/10/2016 16:05

I'll hold my hands up to being a combination of amused, aghast and slightly pitting for any female in proximity to op Grin

Marbleheadjohnson · 16/10/2016 16:09

There's a popcorn emoji?!

On a serious note OP, since you're so keen on giving is a friendly word about us doing our sx a disservice, I'm going to give you some friendly advice and say you've done your sx way more of a disservice with that nonsense you were spouting about mental health and suicide, and if you genuinely cared about male mental health rather than just putting women down, you'd educated yourself on this pretty sharpish.

speakergirl · 16/10/2016 16:10

User you pretty much wasted your time. If Orlando Bloom or George Clooney hit on any of these posters no matter the circumstance they'd love it opposed to a 5ft 8 overweight bespectacled neckbeard. But you already knew this