Women are not required to be open to a man's advances. I have never seen a group of women ridicule a man without him having done something to deserve it. I'm pretty average looking. I have been out lots with women who are drop dead gorgeous and get a constant stream of attention from guys, who they are just not interested in (because they're happy single, because they have a boyfriend, because they're gay, whatever). The men who approach her are "trying their luck" based on nothing other than the fact they think she is fuckable. If they were truly looking for love they'd not just constantly aim for the most gorgeous women around. Expecting these women to entertain a man's advances because the man thinks think she is fuckable is creepy in itself. At worst, women are doing nothing worse than the men who they are rejecting, . I expect you think a blank "no thanks" is rude and bitchy. I expect you think just ignoring the guy is bitchy. Like I said, I've never noticed a woman or women humiliate a man unless he has ignored the first sign that his target is not interested. Conversely, I have noticed men doggedly pursuing women who blatantly aren't interested and then get rude/aggressive/violent when the woman does not respond in a manner he would like. But I just put this down to those men being dickheads, I don't go whining to Menimism boards asking why men do this.
Oh yes Morris, haven't even touched on the age thing. Since you're so keen on tinder being true to real life, OP, here are a couple my own anecdotes - I get more approaches from people my mum's age than people my own age on online dating. Last time I went clubbing, which was last month, there was a group of gorgeous young women who could not have been older than 20 - slim, dressed up in short skirts/shorts, blonde hair, very pretty faces - what would typically pass as "hot girls". Circling around them like sharks was a group of fat, middle aged men who could easily pass for their dads - they did not leave the girls alone the whole night, and would try and block off any younger men who tried to approach them. In that situation, I think it would have been totally fine for the young women to ridicule the men, because the men were being ridiculous. They were being predatory and arrogant. I just shrugged my internal shoulders because I am so used to seeing this. I was out with three men that night though, and they were totally ripping the piss out of the middle aged men "trying their luck". Incidentally all three of those men I was out with are in relationships - one met his girlfriend in a club, he approached her, had a conversation and it bloomed from there (plenty of other times I've been out with him, he's approached women who rejected him and he just moved on, didn't get himself in a tizz about them being bitchy). One met his girlfriend through work - he's skinny and ginger, not some tall, dark handsome beefcake. He's incredibly intelligent, and very funny. He has on occasion, back in his single days, had a moan to me about how hard he found the dating scene - I could empathise, as having been a dumpy etnnic frizzy haired woman growing up with tall, slim, white, shiny-haired friends who always got approached while I never got approached, I knew how hard it was to even get someone want to talk to you if you're not the standard level of attractive. But, we're not bitter illogical idiots, so I didn't blame men for my predicament, and he didn't blame women for his, we just accepted that's society and how people have been conditioned. No one was obliged to find us attractive or give us attention.
The third guy I was out with, I met when we were 19 and he was already going bald then, and is pretty average loooking. He met his girlfriend through a shared interest. He met his previous girlfriend through mutual friends. He was single fora couple of years between the two, and in that time we hit the town a lot. Despite not being Channing Tatum, every time we went out together and he'd try and strike up conversation with women who weren't interested, he never got publically shamed. At best, he'd get a cheery "no thanks, I'm with my boyfriend/girlfriend/just here for a dance". At worst, he'd be ignored, but he'd shrug and hit the dance floor. I very much doubt he went to a feminism forum to complain.