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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ched Evans verdict

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FreshwaterSelkie · 14/10/2016 16:12

to continue the discussion as the previous thread closed.

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venusinscorpio · 14/10/2016 17:56

Sorry that was to Andrew

merrymouse · 14/10/2016 18:03

The point of a civil suit would be to win, not to make money. However, I doubt the victim wants to go through this again. Who would trust the law after this?

MrsJusticeCunt · 14/10/2016 18:04

Never has it been brought into such terrifying focus that if you are a rich, white man, you can evade justice. Ched Evans - who I will always refer to as 'that rapist'. Donald Trump. A man who has openly boasted of sexual assault, is still lauded, loved and the Republican candidate to become the most powerful man in the world.
The rules are made by men. The world is ruled by men. And I'm afraid.

merrymouse · 14/10/2016 18:07

It's not just the victims of rape - this case says to lawyers, policemen, - everyone involved in helping rape victims - just don't bother. You're just putting the victim through Hell and you won't get anywhere unless you can prove she was a virgin.

Lorelei76 · 14/10/2016 18:08

Merry I also thought he'd convicted himself via his own gob. Wonder if transcripts will be made available.

Hamsolo · 14/10/2016 18:10

Like many of you I'm upset by this. Genuinely feel like crying. I'd like to do something and I'm wondering how to make maximum impact. Is there anything concrete that we can do?

BeyondPolkadots · 14/10/2016 18:10

Always worth a shot...
petition.parliament.uk/petitions/169433/sponsors/YOLjUdruoF1X5U3gs1fy

venusinscorpio · 14/10/2016 18:14

I will sign it, but it hasn't been approved yet.

Andrewofgg · 14/10/2016 18:15

I'm not qualoified to judge that, I agree, but neither is anybody else, except the individual woman concerned.

The defendant would probably ignore the claim and let judgment go by default. Then make himself bankrupt and make the judgment permanently worthless.

Andrewofgg · 14/10/2016 18:16

BeyondPolkadots The peition is still being checked. What does it ask for?

Elendon · 14/10/2016 18:17

Oh yes, Ched Evans will always be likened to Donald Trump in my mind. Rich men who get away with it because they have money and influence.

Andrewofgg · 14/10/2016 18:18

I wrote Well, they heard the evidence and one of us did and of course I meant Well, they heard the evidence and none of us did

11122aa · 14/10/2016 18:19

Some of the comments on facebook are disgusting. It makes me so angry.
It would not surprise me in the future to hear that her name has been chanted at football matches when he is playing.

11122aa · 14/10/2016 18:21

Loads of likes on one calling for her and her family to pay him his wages for the last five years( posted by a women) and one that she went back with a footballer she wasn't going for coffee ( posted by a man)

11122aa · 14/10/2016 18:23

If someone launched a prosecute her petition it would easily get an awful lot of signatures i suspect.

BeyondPolkadots · 14/10/2016 18:24

Ah bugger - it isn't mine so I'm paraphrasing, but it's for the banning of the use of a victims sexual history in sexual abuse cases.

Marbleheadjohnson · 14/10/2016 18:24

Yes, she went back with one footballer. Another broke into the room.

If a man were drunk and went to a hotel with a woman, and then he was so drunk he didn't know what was going on, would it be ok for another man to break in and start having sex with him, because he consented to the woman earlier?

merrymouse · 14/10/2016 18:29

Well, they heard the evidence and one of us did and of course I meant Well, they heard the evidence and none of us did

Yes, but in the circumstances I think the courts need to make clear the logic behind the verdict.

11122aa · 14/10/2016 18:29

Of course it wouldn't. Or if very drunk footballer went back with a women who wasnt drunk and then she sexually assulted him but was then found not guilty he wouldnt be called the names she is being called.

Elendon · 14/10/2016 18:30

Maybe I should buy myself a silver bullet dildo and keep it in my handbag as a weapon of self defence. Wonder how that would go down in court?

FreshwaterSelkie · 14/10/2016 18:48

As for the reward, is it different from a reward being offered leading to a successful prosecution?

Yes, yes it really is. The new witness in this trial had nothing material to offer about the night in question. All he testified to was her general sexual history. He wasn't present, he didn't witness anything. Also, the money was offered on behalf of the accused, whereas generally a reward will be offered on behalf of the victim, if offered at all.

Can I put out a general appeal to any men posting here to please bear in mind that this is the feminism chat board, and that a lot of women here tonight are hurting and angry for very personal reasons. And to please think about that when you are posting and ask yourself if this is really the correct forum and the right for a good dose of masculine objectivity?

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FreshwaterSelkie · 14/10/2016 18:49

*the right time

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JenLindleyShitMom · 14/10/2016 18:51

Ugh! I know I shouldn't but I went on FB.

Can anyone clarify something I have seen posted saying that there was video evidence of the three of them walking back to the hotel together? From what I've read only CM and the woman went to the hotel and CE came later when CM texted him that he had a girl.

WomanWithAltitude · 14/10/2016 18:53

No, that's nonsense.

WomanWithAltitude · 14/10/2016 18:54

People come out with all kinds of shit but there is no evidence to support that claim.

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