I think we need to drop the 'trans woman' and 'trans man' terminology if we want to ever discuss this issue honestly. Trans activists have popularised these terms to mean the exact opposite of reality. A male with dysphoria is a dysphoric male, not a 'trans woman'. If we use accurate terms the conversation can stop going in endless circles of nonsense.
The battle to open women's spaces to dysphoric males makes no sense when you acknowledge reality in the language. There's no point shouting that 'dysphoric males are women' because it's obviously a nonsense. No need to call anyone 'cis' because women are women and men are men and people with dysphoria are acknowledged as such without having to twist everyone else's reality in knots.
Transitioning is not a real thing. As well we could call it pretending, or acting, or assuming a role, for those who do it successfully. But they haven't transitioned to any end point where they actually become the opposite sex, so why do we continue to use this term that implies a journey and an end point? Why do we tell these lies that cause us such difficulty, just to be 'nice'?? Really?
It doesn't matter if the public don't really agree with the trans stuff because the laws and practices of organisations (including schools etc) are changing without consultation with the public. It's being slipped by us all. So much has already been slipped past by activists pushing their propaganda on legislators and management (of schools etc) who do not understand that they have been misled. Not misled - lied to. Total out and out lies.
The lies are in the basic terminology. The lies are in the implication that 'trans' means what people understand as 'transsexual' when the new meanings are far broader than that. The lies are in the false statistics and the fake 'research' done by activists to spec.
It's like feminists are constantly trying to reason with logic and honesty but it's getting us nowhere because the opposition isn't playing by those rules! They are using outright lies, blackmail, harassment, threats. The least we could do if we want to get anywhere is to stop alowing to set all the terms of the discussion!
They call us murderers and wish death on us even when we tie ourselves in knots trying to be nice about it. Why do people keep saying Anna seems nice? Anna seems deluded at best, and Anna is pursuing an actively misogynist path that will have real negative impact on the lives of women and girls. What's nice about that??