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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Feminist pub no 12: The Bluestocking Returns, this time with goats!

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YonicScrewdriver · 05/10/2014 09:18

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YonicScrewdriver · 13/10/2014 09:11

Flowers buffy

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vezzie · 13/10/2014 10:04

Oh Buffy, sorry to hear about the row and the chest infection. Brew please imagine that this is a cup of something very soothing and aromatic that you like.

You lot are all so lovely, seeing your sympathy on the page really cheers me up. Thank you.

It's pouring with rain here but I am finding that perversely soothing. I hope you all have a good day or as good as can be expected with crap work, chest infections and so on. Flowers

NormaStanleyFletcher · 13/10/2014 10:04

Wine (i know it is too early) and Flowers for Vezzie and Buffy

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 10:06

"cockwomble". What an excellent word!!

Therapeutic Cake for vezzie and Buffy.

PetulaGordino · 13/10/2014 10:08

oh no buffy, i hope you are able to find some proper rest time for the chest infection. i especially wish i could take away the work horribleness

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/10/2014 10:10

I really fancy some cake now - coffee and walnut, preferably. Hmm But we only have Biscuit in the house.

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 10:16

I have just had two Belgian buns for breakfast Blush.

Sigh, another day of me and a paintbrush and roller. I'm heartily sick of decorating the house now. I though it would only take a week, but today is the start of week 2 and we've only done 1 room! Granted, it was the room requiring the most work by far so the rest shouldn't take long. But I'm finding it all very frustrating. It keeps my hands busy but my mind is free to panic about a wide variety of interesting topics such as how long we can afford for me to stay unemployed (and painting instead of job hunting doesn't help with this anxiety) or how my examiners are probably going to read my thesis and declare it such crap that I won't even get a viva. Every time my email goes "ping!" I have a small coronary. I do not cope well with an idle brain. Sad

BuffyRedRidingHood · 13/10/2014 10:25

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AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 10:38

You say that Buffy, but they happily let me submit my first- and second-year reports and they were ripped to shreds by my examiners and are on my record as being "very poor". As I've said before, my 2nd year report/viva were so bad they downgraded me to an MPhil and I had to appeal to get re-instated on the PhD programme. And as my new set of examiners said at my appeal viva, "We still doubt very much your work will ever be good enough for a PhD, but we suppose there's no harm in letting you try".

So my paranoia is not groundless. Grin

BuffyRedRidingHood · 13/10/2014 10:44

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AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 11:39

In theory that's how it works in my field too, Buffy. So I (and others, including our Head of Post-Grads Studies) remain baffled as to how my principal supervisor has managed to cock up so spectacularly with me. She's been doing this for decades and has many many successful students under her belt. It really is a mystery.

Zazzles007 · 13/10/2014 11:40

Just saw this interesting article about gender diversity and happiness. Article has the paper it is based on, linked within the text. Not sure that I agree with what the article is saying, but haven't read the paper within the article yet.

www.bostonglobe.com/business/2014/10/06/gender-diversity-increases-productivity-decreases-happiness/dOiNvWK9tj8qJyrKVGp3uI/story.html

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 11:41

Has this appeared in anyone else's Sidebar of Ads on MN? I doubt this is targeted specifically at me as a) I don't buy lingerie, I buy functional underwear Grin and b) I don't shop at Tesco.

But, just, urgh.

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 11:42

Has this appeared in anyone else's Sidebar of Ads on MN? I doubt this is targeted specifically at me as a) I don't buy lingerie, I buy functional underwear Grin and b) I don't shop at Tesco.

But, just, urgh.

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 11:42

Has this appeared in anyone else's Sidebar of Ads on MN? I doubt this is targeted specifically at me as a) I don't buy lingerie, I buy functional underwear Grin and b) I don't shop at Tesco.

But, just, urgh.

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/10/2014 11:42

Agree with buffy - a matter of supervisor's reputation (but clearly also a little bit important for student Grin.) In fact I can see my reputation going down the drain while my student dilly-dallies over his corrections and goes incommunicado. Hmm Clearly it would be worse for him than for me if the thing's not done. But it's still upsetting.

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 11:43

Sorry, I seem to get triple posts whenever I add an image at the moment. Just to make sure everyone is listening!! Grin

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/10/2014 11:45

xpost.

Really slow interweb today. Hmm

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/10/2014 11:47

"The study also found that employees felt good about working for a company that cared about equality between the sexes — as long as that caring didn’t translate into action."

Hahaha. >

PetulaGordino · 13/10/2014 11:47

zazzles reading that very quickly, it looks as though the problem is that men don't like having to watch their socialised behaviour around women. basically, being a nice person is hard work Hmm

it's a grass roots problem IMO

PetulaGordino · 13/10/2014 11:48

i haven't read the original research article either btw

PetulaGordino · 13/10/2014 11:49

from a corporate POV though, if the findings are sound, increased diversity is a good thing (more productivity), which bodes well

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/10/2014 11:53

I have misgivings about lacy underwear. Don't they scratch? Or am I a princess with sensitive nerve endings worthy of that one who laid on a million layers of mattresses and still felt the pea? (Wouldn't the pea have been squashed? They should try a walnut. And they must have had high ceilings.)

AnnieLobeseder · 13/10/2014 12:01

I think it was a dried pea, rather than a frozen one, LordCopper. Grin

But I agree with you on the scratchiness of lingerie. This is why I wear underwear instead.