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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

River Island 'Anti-Nag Gag'

139 replies

SingSongSlummy · 06/05/2014 11:45

Can't quite believe they are selling this...

twitter.com/salihughes/status/463615941860147200/photo/1

River Island 'Anti-Nag Gag'
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TessOfTheFurbyvilles · 07/05/2014 13:28

Turtle - it's from The Wolf of Wall Street.

turtleback · 07/05/2014 13:35

Oh right tess, that great feminist film Hmm

BomChickaMeowMeow · 07/05/2014 13:45

I haven't read the Metro article but I read a list of the "Women's sexual complaints" list in a link shared by a friend on Facebook and read it from a feminist perspective of the shit women put up with from sexual partners.

YouAreMyFavouriteWasteOfTime · 07/05/2014 14:44

who was the target market for this product

I mean is it a funny bday present for a female partner?
is it a stag gift?

I am trying to figure under what normal circumstances anyone would buy this item?

YouAreMyFavouriteWasteOfTime · 07/05/2014 14:45

typo:
I mean is it a funny bday present for a female partner? = I mean is it a 'funny' bday present for a female partner?

ballsballsballs · 07/05/2014 14:54

It'd be a very unfunny present, perhaps for a stag do. Sigh.

TessOfTheFurbyvilles · 07/05/2014 15:03

YouAreMyFavourite - I suspect it was aimed at being a "humorous" gift for male football fans (as the gag piece is a football), as the World Cup is coming up, so of course football will be overtaking TVs up and down the country in the summer months.

And of course, that automatically means women will be nagging about all the football, because woman can't like football and want to watch it themselves!!

EEasterChick · 07/05/2014 16:25

River Island also sell a nork shaped beach ball advertised by a woman asking if the "Boys wanna play with my boobie?" And an "Irish accent mouth spray". Yes AnyFucker I think it's time to source the jeans elsewhere.

AnyFucker · 07/05/2014 17:04

Drat! The jeans were good Sad

BreakingDad77 · 07/05/2014 17:30

Curious as to what gender designed it/gave it green light.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 07/05/2014 17:35

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LoveSardines · 07/05/2014 17:42

I am also a bit boggled that anyone would spend £4 on this.

Apart from the fact that's it's preposterously sexist, I can't imagine they'd actually make much money out of it.

It's a visual joke, right, it would make sense as a cartoon or something, not something you would actually buy.

Just really weird.

YouAreMyFavouriteWasteOfTime · 07/05/2014 17:52

i think we may have collective denial about what is considered funny or acceptable at the moment. i have a horrible feeling many people (/men?) would think it was funny.

i googled the product to see who makes it but found these gems:

www.funslurp.com/hear-no-evil-instant-nag-relief

and once more
www.diabolicalgifts.com/product/anti-nag-gag

BornToFolk · 07/05/2014 19:53

I was just looking on the River Island site and saw they also sell this novelty "Grow your own girlfriend gift". No 1 reason why you have to have her? "She never has a headache!" Shock

Grow your own girlfriend

I'm actually quite shocked by it. Such horrible misogyny presented as novelty. It's horrible. Sad

turtleback · 07/05/2014 19:58

Can someone expalin the Irish accent mouth spray? Confused

LoveSardines · 07/05/2014 20:15

here

no idea Confused

I just had a little browse at the women's "novelty" section to see if it had any equivalent anything about punching men in the face for a laugh or the like. Strangely, not. It was all sweets. So they think that women like eating sugar, and men like being sexist and racist (xenophobic? irishist?).

Great.

AnyFucker · 07/05/2014 20:27

I think I have seen "grow your own boyfriend" kits, but not sure if they were quite so dismissive of men

turtleback · 07/05/2014 20:33

The irish mouth spray is just random love

But he never looks at your credit card bill anyfucker, unlike your real partner who has to keep tabs on your spending.

And he doesn't argue.

Women want someone who agrees with them. Men want someone to agree to sex with them.

turtleback · 07/05/2014 20:34

I do wonder who buys these things too. I mean the assumprtion of sex/credit card bills etc. Says adults in relationships. But do grownups buy this crap? Confused

AnyFucker · 07/05/2014 20:35

somebody must buy it

turtleback · 07/05/2014 20:38

David Brent types at xmas works dos I guess. Who knew there were so many of them?!

AnyFucker · 07/05/2014 20:39

Indeed

ReallyFuckingFedUp · 08/05/2014 08:32

I've spent ages reading the comments section of the Metro article and actually found it disgusting and struggled to sleep last night. Confused

Men under their own names (not the idiots who post here anonymously for a reaction) happily laughing at the list saying the author "must just not like sex". "doesn't know how to communicate" "needs to get laid by a man".

Surely men need to communicate. Can I penetrate you in the ass? Surely the onus is on them. And if women are just laughing off sexual assault as an annoyance why the fuck even bother? And if the woman doesn't like it...DON'T DO IT!

If these shits were prosecuted and got raped in prison would they still be laughing? I actually feel sick :(

I have a girl and two boys. I so wanted a daughter, not because I had ideas about having a little pink nightmare, but because little girls are awesome. And now I sometimes feel horrible for bringing in to her the world for what feels like a life time of abuse.

I honestly would feel like I won the lottery if she came out as a lesbian one day because it makes me sick thinking of her (she is only 3 now) growing up in a world so saturated by porn that this is what she has took forward to with boys. Where anal sex is expected and doing it without permission or preparation is something women feel they just have to put up with like random objects being inserted as in the article.

I have 2 little boys and I feel this overwhelming responsibility to make sure they don't grow up to be entitled arseholes.

TereseaGreen · 08/05/2014 09:24

ReallyFuckingFedUp Please don't despair! The antidote lies in those of us bringing up boys.
Its going to be a tough job with all the external pressures which will be exerted upon them but modelling healthy,happy and equal relationships along with education and reinforcement will hopefully result in raising the bar. These little people that we guide for a while are the framework for a better future.