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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lapdancing and telling off dh's mate.

365 replies

Manchesterhistorygirl · 02/10/2013 17:41

I blame you lot. Thanks.

Last night dh's friend was telling him all about his recent visit to a lap dancing bar. I told him he and his mates were a bunch of twats and I was disgusted at them all, especially since they all have partners.

I also told dh if I ever found out he'd done the same it'd be the absolute last thing he ever did.

So my nest of vipers, thank you for giving me the confidence to handle a situation I've always found disgusting, but wouldn't have ever spoken out about until I joined here.

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AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:32

Me? I'm flabberghasted.

Manchesterhistorygirl · 03/10/2013 23:32

Odfod registry. If another adult enters my private space, spouts mysogynistic shite and I call them on that behaviour I then run the risk of being physically attacked in my home? What a crock of shite.

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registary · 03/10/2013 23:33

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AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:33

The MRA klaxon has clearly been sounded somewhere in the bowels of t'internet

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:33

Or maybe not.

Maybe OP is justified in being against lap dancing clubs - just a thought.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:33

Are my post not showing?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:35

I'm not sure they are, bale. Or maybe we're just ignoring you as we should have done from the beginning.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:37

Registry - don't you have school tomorrow? You have been reported, and don't personally attack the OP. Especially when being abusive. If you feel you have a point make it more generally.

Wow

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:37

Post pub chuck out = hairy handers everywhere.

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Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:38

Sab - that's fair enough. It was people telling me to get outraged when I thought I was.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:38

bale you've been abusive to the op, and been reported for it Hmm why up in arms about someone else?

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:40

Registary - it wasn't the OP passing legislation that effects you. It was a point made to her husband and his mate.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:42

I think I'll go back to the kittens now.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:42

Sab - I see violent threats different to an opinion on a situation.

BasilBabyEater · 03/10/2013 23:44

Another ten-a-penny nincompoop

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:45

yawn. how boring you are bale. I'm terribly tired of people like you.

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:48

Being lumped in with the goady hecklers must be very upsetting and feel like you have been treated very unfairly. What say you, YGB ?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:49

Plus, I thought you'd apologised for reading the op wrong there, bale.

Gah. Can anyone be arsed with these posters? They're so tedious!

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:50

Ok SAB, sorry. I thought abuse might be on a spectrum. That thing you said about kittens is still fresh. I mustn't yawn

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:55

Kittens are cute and endearing. You are not.

SunshineSuperNova · 03/10/2013 23:59

Manchester well done for speaking up.

Yougotbale · 04/10/2013 00:01

Those same kittens would eat you if you passed away. Only kidding, I like pussies. I prefer the general domestic to the over bread ones. They tend to have better temperaments

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 00:11

Yes, baley. I thought you'd get onto that sort of thing soon. We all knew the sort of poster you were. Did you think you had us fooled? Ha ha. Or should that be f**led? Ten a penny.

Yougotbale · 04/10/2013 00:14

What? A cat man rather than a dog man.

We had a tabby and a pure black one just like Sabrina